does anyone have post op rectecle problems

Hi everyone,
I have been having this problem everytime with intercourse. I get bleeding from the inscision mark just below the vaginal opening. It happens everytime I have intercourse. I am so frustrated and my hubby does'nt help by being rough. I had rectal and bladder surgery along with the hysterectomy. I'm wondering if this is normal or should I go see someone about this. Thanks Brenda

Hi Brenda
Sorry you are having trouble! I don't have experience with this, but wanted to give your post a little Hoping someone else will come along with some thoughts for you!

Sending best wishes!

I had rectocele surgery on April 11 2005. Doctor said wait 8 weeks before sex. I keep trying but it hurts and not much can go inside. Do you have this problem?

I had rectocele repair and it hurts right at the incision and I think it has come apart. I think we all should go back to our drs as I don't think this is right. I don't think you should be bleeding nor should it be too tight.
I got a referral to a uro gyno from my gp because i was so upset that the repair didn't work and now I have all these strange pockets where there were stitches and lumps and bumps. Sex feels like exploratory surgery . I have found positions where I am in control help but it makes se stressful when you are aprehensive about it doesn't it? I hope you find answers and relief. My appt isn't until sept. but I will keep in touch.
Marg