FINAL GOODBYE TO EVERYONE x x x x x x

well here we go girls this is it my last posting ever on this side Its gone so quickly,I had my pre op today and am being addmitted tomorrow and operated early fri and I still dont know which way to have it done,they will let me stay awake and have it vaginally but if it gets to difficult back to the prep room and put to sleep for abdominal or if I choose abdominal Im not allowed to stay awake(as that was my wish)they are a bit funny over here about that so Im begining to just feel go for the abdominal and put to sleep as that way I wont be sore both ends if I choose vaginally and it goes wrong,Iv 19 and a half hrs left at home now and off to bed soon for 9 of them before Im in hospital,I just wanted to THANK EVERYONE for all of their support and advice and for the good friends Iv made on here(1 in particular)and if anyone wants to offer me any final advice please do im a nervous wreck and I hate the thought of going in the day before and having to wave goodbye to my husband and 4 children while they drop me off and go,O please let this time fly I just want to come home, good luck everyone I love you all
love Hayleyx x x

Hi Hayley,

I was thinking about you this morning and that I should write to you today or tomorrow. I forgot that you girls over there go in the day before, so I am glad you posted.

I am sorry that there is still the ambiguity over the type of procedure. I am terribly disappointed about not having a TVH, but I am pleased to know ahead of time. I am still not there so I can't offer any advice, but I hope your decisions works out the best for you.

You will be in my thoughts this weekend and I hope to see your castle story soon!

Nicole

Hi Hayley,

Just think all the worrying and anxiety will all be over soon. I wish you all the best. You will certainly be in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep in touch and let us know how you are doing.

Thanks for that Nicole your words mean a lot,yes perhaps it wont be my last posting as I will have to post" Im home" wow I will be a princess then,I notice you are not far away when you have to go in so all the best for yours and how nice you were thinking of me I will think of you in 2 weeks and you will be fine,much love Hayley

Peg721 Thank you also for your kind words and its hard focusing on positive things not negative but just think soon we will all be crowned princesses best of luck to you and I will look out for you after love Hayley

Hi Hayley,

Good Luck to you. Thanks for taking the time to respond to my private message with all you had going on preparing mentally and physically for your surgery. You will make all the right decisions for yourself, I'm confident.

I received an email from the "horsewoman" you connected me to. I am having a little trouble responding back to her, but will keep trying (remember...computer illiterate).

Thanks again....I will be thinking about you...talk to you soon.

Hey there,my surgery is Friday too! I quit pretending to be calm yesterday .Here is a good laugh for all who need one. My husband went shopping yesterday for my "things to bring to the hospital " and" things I'll need before surgery list'.Instead of getting my Fleet Suppositories,he picked me up douche.He was like,"Ok. I'll just return it." I was like",sure you will".I am now visualizing the whole scene as I type this message.Prayers to everyone.

Hi Haley,
You will be suprised how fast the time will go. You'll be back home with your family before you know it. Best wishes for a sucessful surgery which ever way it goes. I didn't know when I went under how it would end up being done, but I did end up with the TAH/BSO and am doing GREAT. Sometimes I'm surpised at how fast I've bounced back, even back to work and I only took 3 weeks off.

Just take it easy, listen to your dr. and the nurses. I really thought the pain would be terrible, and it just never was, only took pain meds for 5 days total, hope you do the same...

Wishing you a speedy recovery.