Okay! I got my first time out of the way!

for you!!! I still have a ways to go (my said nothing for 8 weeks), but I am already freaking out about the very possibility of getting the first time out of the way!

I am glad that your experience was pain free! I only hope to have the same thing! I had a previous surgery where we had to wait for 6-8 weeks and I was so nervous, it sure didn't make the experience a good one.

Here's to hoping each time is better and better!

I, like you, am very scared...pain before the surgery..ouch, that and bloating immediately afterwards...I feel somewhat relieved that it probably won't hurt anymore..I just don't have the courage yet to try, and to make matters worse neither does my significant other..he is scared as well..maybe Thanksgiving will be a good time..We both can give THANKS : )

Boy, there just is nothing like that first time. I am SO tickled for the girls who are able to get right back in the saddle. But I usually have a hard time and man...it was rough last night, that first attempt. I don't even know if I can put names to the things that had me so worked up. I'm positive I was afraid I'd spot, and I don't know! I don't know what else. I kept calling it my new vagina, and he kept saying, "no, sweetie, it's the very same one, just arranged differently." But it's MY VAGINA, ya know? And of course, everything else I've ever been through with it was there with me last night in my head. THank GOD I was able to do IT and have that first time. I'm not sore or anything at all today, and I wasn't dry. I giggle thinking about it now, because honestly, I didn't move a muscle. My poor darling, hehehe. I was no fun that way but I was so focused on FEELING it, I had to feel it and see that it wasn't going to start hurting at any point. Toward the end he wasn't quite as gentle as he'd started out being, when the End Was Near, and it just didn't hurt. I still can't shout that loud enough. IT DIDN'T HURT! And gosh, to not spot afterward either...sex has made me spot for over a year now. I'm just so happy. THANK YOU for letting me share it. Esp after we've all been so worried for Holli.
Smooches to my sisters! And love and hugs to everyone that has a tough go of it that first time!!!!

Nicki

This is wonderful!!!!!!!! Thanks for the Good news and Hope. My times coming and I have been SCARED! I understand about the increased libido! What the heck! But I LIKE it, even more now that you've shared! Thanks again!!!!!
Carol
LAVH 9/2/09

My DH and I have been back in the saddle now for almost 2 weeks. The first time was a little emotional. I was scared and when he was using his fingers, I thought they went in too far and I frieked a little. So much for the first time cause he couldn't continue after he thought he hurt me. The next time I made sure I was on top where I could control everything. It was GREAT!!!!! The best part was NO CONDOMS! We could just enjoy it. We have had sex now about 3 times and each time is better than before. My libido seems to be in overdrive. Poor hubby was lucky to get it once a month before the surgery. Now, though...look out hubby, here I come!

Glad to hear others have had good experiences as well!

Wow ladies...After i read this, i wanted to give my new 'pocketbook' a try. So i woke my husband up, pulled down my husbands pants and chickened out. He said he understood but i guess that mentally im not there yet. Now don't get me wrong, physically i feel ready. But all i think about is his penis not fitting into my vagina OR it pushing thru my cuff. What makes it so bad is get a visual of both of those happening. I even giggle about it because its crazy, but you cant help where your mind takes you. So, needless to say, we had another sexless night. But im okay with that and so is my very understanding husband.
Nite ladies......
P.S. Enjoy that "NEW VAGINA SEX"

I am so happy that you shared! i have been married 13 years and 10 of those years have been very painful. my anniversary is one week after my 'go' date. i am terrified and pray it does not hurt!

I DID IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Okay. Im telling it all. I surfed the web for a while then i took a shower. When i got out, i was putting on lotion and my hubby walked in and we started kissing and ........well, you know....

Anyway, i let him put IT in..the pocket book..and it didn't hurt, I didn't have an 'O' but he sure had a seizure hahahaha....My hubbby shook like Whoopi Goldberg did on the movie GHOST when the ghost would jump in her body, it was soooo funny

I was scared as crap though! I couldn't loosen up fully but there was no spotting, no pain, no nothing. I anticipated there to be a complication, you know..expect the worst, hope for the best.

I don't wanna do IT again for a few days but, Im passed the initial stage fright.

Okay, are you guys disgusted? Im sorry, but I had to tell my sisters.

I'll be sleeping with a smile on my face tonite.
Nite ladies.

This gives me so much hope!! I can't wait for the first time with my DH, only a few weeks left! I can't wait until I don't have pain after sex. I'm so happy that everything went well in the end. Congratulations!!

Wonderful news!!! Congrats!!! We all deserve a painfree sex life!!! Thank you for sharing!!!! We are celebrating with you!!