My husband is drivng me crazy(sex)! Help please?

I am at week 5, and my DH is getting edgy wanting sex. I do not have the go ahead from the doctor yet, because I am having other issues with my hysterectomy so Dr would probably kill me if the sex didnt. He is constantly trying to get me to do something. I told him I can't jurk on anything, and I have a yeast infection in my mouth from the antibiotics so thats out. Every time I am near him he's grabbing on to me and I wanna wack him in the head. He said that I talk dirty in my sleep, which is probably true because I am a sleep talker and then don't remember a word I said. LOL I told him I would sleep on the couch if it would help but he said NO. He walks around mad at me all the time. Even when the doctor clears me I'm not sure I will be up for it, because Its scarry and he doesn't understand. I'm really emotional right now and he's no help there. Ive told him to watch a movie, give your self a hand, I won't mind at all! he'd do it anyother time but not this time. We actually argue over this. He knows nothing in the vagina til the doctor oks it but he is pushing for other things. I'm so sick of it!

Men never get it! I'm sorry he's like that. It was hard for me to feel romantic or sexy or anything else for awhile but I did help my DH out a few times. I have large breasts so that helped and then I bought him really nice soap for the shower! ALthough my DH has been awesome for me. I was scared too, still get a little anxious at times and it's been 4 mos. Hang in there. Will he talk about it at all? Fears, anxiety and such?

I am in the same boat with you! My hubby is driving me crazy!!!!! The problem I am having is that I am NOT interested in doing anything right now with him. He understands where I am coming from......at least he says so. But yet he still walks by and grabs or touches or pinches....anyway, I also have this fear when my dr clears me I am still not going to want to. I am nervous about doing it! I do not want to feel pain, or cause problems.

I made my husband read the free booklet they offered on the website,which states 6 to 8 weeks before anything in vagina.So my dear hubby thinks it will be 8 weeks and is planning a weekend away for us then. Maybe you should have the doctor talk to him? There is also the misterhyster website,maybe an article on there you could print out? Good luck, I am sorry hes being a pain.Noelle

Has your DH read any info for husbands on this website? it can be really useful..