Caring for 3 kids at 1 week post-op?

Great info! I just talked to my hubby and his schedule that 2nd week would not be too hectic so he could get the kids ready in the morning, and be home at a decent hour too.
greyown- yes, I will be having bladder repairs so I know lifting is out of the question I will look up some lifting alternatives- I think my 2yr old will be okay with it.
daisylily- yes, it is SO hard to ask for help! I have already informed them that I will be using their services, so that I don't try to back out of not asking for help.

I think I am going to hit up our local Super Suppers and fill our freezer with meals beforehand also.