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Prepared or not feeling bad
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05-30-2014, 03:35 PM
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Posts: 117
Hysterectomy: June 13th, 2014
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Prepared or not feeling bad
I cleaned the carpets
I washed all the laundry
I swept the floors and moped the wood down stairs I cleaned the bed sheets cleaned the drawers by my bed
and than I realized its too early the house is just the same as before I wanted to feel safe I was hoping to just feel at ease with what would happen now I am more scared than ever the kids only have 3 more days of school my sons birthday is the 7th and I am just going to do what I can the week before
any advise feeling overwhelmed, I am going to have my mother in law at my house after surgery and my sister I am hoping my house don't get messy so worried I don't want to be embarrassed because I wont be well enough to clean
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05-30-2014, 04:00 PM
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Hysterectomy: July 3rd, 2013
Surgery Type: TVH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Prepared or not feeling bad
First...it's normal to feel overwhelmed, nervous. The lead up is the worst part of everything.
Second and most important. After surgery when your MIL and sister are going to be there - Remember - they are there to help you, not nit-pick the house. The chores will have to wait. Don't be afraid to let them do the housework for a while. Those that care about you, will be more than willing to help out (or overlook the mess if they don't want to help). ![Smilie](images/smilies/smileywithcrown.gif) You only get one chance to heal the right way and set backs will only make the recovery longer and harder.
Take care and good luck with everything!
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05-30-2014, 04:11 PM
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Hysterectomy: June 2nd, 2014
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Re: Prepared or not feeling bad
my surgery is monday and I am a hot mess. I feel like I am going to puke. I am in crying fits.
If cleaning your house makes you feel better. Do it!
good luck!
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05-30-2014, 04:21 PM
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Hysterectomy: June 13th, 2014
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Re: Prepared or not feeling bad
thank you both I know waiting for surgery is the hardest part I am sure things will be ok I am going to clean the house up my mom kept the boys my daughter is at grad night going to relax keep the DH company and worry tomorrow my mom is going to come help
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05-30-2014, 04:22 PM
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Hysterectomy: June 13th, 2014
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Re: Prepared or not feeling bad
heal safely I will look for your posts tue to see how your doing
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05-30-2014, 05:12 PM
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Hysterectomy: April 18th, 2014
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Prepared or not feeling bad
I had surgery on Good Friday. So Easter, my husbands end of year band party, my dtrs 8th birthday, ans graduation all during my recovery. Made the basket, stuffed the plastic eggs and hubby hid them. Got friends to help with partied, and for my dtrs b-day (8) we ordered pizza, ate cake, and they ran and played together. Not the big deal it usually is, but she loved it. House stayed reasonable, but nit like i do it, but i just made an effort to ignore it and heal. Do what you can ahead of time, it will make you feel better, then sit down and relax during recovery and let everyone else work. In just a few short weeks (and time seems to pass quickly) you will be wishing for time off!! Best wishes as you recover.
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05-30-2014, 07:10 PM
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Posts: 32
Hysterectomy: June 11th, 2014
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Prepared or not feeling bad
Hi, surgery-buddy! Mine is the 11th, and my house has never been cleaner! Haha!
I'm trying to channel the worry into something productive . . . making frozen meals, deep-cleaning windows, etc., cleaning out under the beds and backs of closets - ha!
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05-30-2014, 09:46 PM
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Hysterectomy: June 13th, 2014
Surgery Type: TAH
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Re: Prepared or not feeling bad
sounds great I am so happy lol I cleaned all the ceiling fans tonight going to clean the stairs tomorrow I need to prep some meals in the freezer I also reserved the top of the fridge for myself so I dont have to bend down
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05-31-2014, 02:23 AM
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Hysterectomy: February 23rd, 2017
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Re: Prepared or not feeling bad
It sounds like you are doing exactly what you need to do re: saving the top shelves of the fridge and getting your house in order beforehand. I have not yet had my hysterectomy and still don't have a date, but I've had a couple surgeries leading up to it. I had my husband home a couple days through a rough time after my ablation and lap (apparently most people don't have such a tough time with it), but he had to leave for several hours to pick up our kids. I didn't want to be alone, but didn't want to invite my perfectionist friend over to hang out with me and watch movies while my house was not "up to snuff". But you know what? She didn't care. I know it's not quite the same thing, but the people that care about you will understand. It's hard enough worrying about everything else , do your best with your house before , and afterwards try to let it go. Best wishes to you!
Danielle
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06-01-2014, 10:48 AM
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Hysterectomy: June 4th, 2014
Surgery Type: TAH/SAH
Ovaries: Undecided
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Re: Prepared or not feeling bad
Haha! I have been doing the same thing. My house is clean,clean,clean! My surgery is scheduled for June 4th.
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