Did the deed -- have a question

Finally did the deed last night! I can happily say I experienced NO PAIN! I was a nerd, though. I just wanted to DO IT, get it over with, and ask DH if it was different. He said he didn't notice a difference. I thought I felt a little tighter.

Here's the question: I felt a little burning sensation afterwards, and about an hour later when I went to the bathroom, I had extremely light spotting when I wiped. This is normal, right? Could it have been from being a little dry during the deed? I haven't had any more spotting.

TIA.

I think a little spotting is normal....heavy bleeding with blood clots is not..lol.
I'm glad everything went all right...and you're ok..
Hugz
Bernadette

I did the "deed" on Friday, but had no spotting. It's funny how much we obsess over the first time. I was nervous, but like you, I just wanted to do it and find out what it was going to be like.

I did ask my doc last week at my appt if I should expect any spotting/bleeding and what to do if it happened. He said "you shouldn't have any bleeding, but let us know if you do".

I didn't really have a burning sensation, but I could definately tell that something had been used that hadn't been touched in a while. I felt more. . .raw is the only word I can use to describe it. It was all better by Saturday.

Hope your next time is even better.

i had light spotting the first time...very pink, very short-term.
i can't say what's normal, but that was kind of normal for me even before the surgery...sorry :TMI:

Well I haven't done the deed yet and am wanting to (just to get it over with) I feel like a virgin again and ----- maybe i should just hang onto it this time. h'mmm second chance! not sure how my man would like that. did the outcourse and know the big "O" works so hey that is all that matters right?
will let you know how long i can keep "MY NEW VIRGINITY" LOL
paula

I think the light pink spotting you experienced is due to dryness. I say that because that is what happened to me. Talk to your doc, maybe some vaginal estrogen is in your future.
Hugs
snickers

I know how alot of ya feel I had my 6week appt. last week and my Doc said I was healed well. I more then ready to do the deed. I asked my Doc all kinds of questions and she was great. I also was sent home with a tube of KY and she told me things will go easier if we use it for the first 2 months. As also I am tighter then I was. I know I am thankful for KY.