Cleared at 4 weeks but at 6 weeks not all that great.

I had my total abdominal on Dec 10. Was supposed to just get one ovary removed, woke up to both ovaries, cervix, uterus, and nodes removed. NO cancer though after waiting 2 weeks!
I saw my DR for my supposedly post op appointment at 4.5 weeks. He cleared me to ease back into everything although I was still walking slightly bent due to the pulling feeling.

Well, I've done the do with the hubby twice and it was fine I was scared, but this Wednesday we tried again and I starte spotting afterward, then Friday still spotting started feeling a pain in my lower right side of my back and also weirdly enough the same discomfort and pressure down in my pelvic area when i sit down.

What is this pressure of pain from. I swear I thought I was almost on the homefront until this! Now I feel just like I did when I had that huge cyst when I sit down. When I pee or bare down any especially when emptying my bladder.
Did I just mess something up that last time and make everything swell back up or what?

Maybe you should put in a call to your doc? You are still early in recovery that there could be a number of issues...even something as simple as a uti or just needing more rest