All this post op sex talk has me a little scared

I have been on here the last few days because on thursday I will finally be able to have sex again and I have been very much been looking foward to it. But all this sex talk about cuffs tearing, pain, discharge and than the big O not feeling the same etc.. I must admit gals I am a little on edge. I know this is everyone elses experince and I will have my own. Does anyone have a good story to tell? Just to help my nerves.

My experience has been nothing but positive. :-)

I had everything removed.

I kept cervix so could not tell you about cuff. But sex for me has not changed except to pain.

I think if you wait until your body is ready instead of some magical number given to all women you will be fine. Test the waters w/ a finger & see if us sore. That's what I did & now at 9 wks post op, in finally "ready"!! I haven't done it yet but will soon and am sure I'll be fine. I have had the bug O and each time it was intense. I can't wait!! Good luck