TVH The Big One....poss TMI

Well, this may be TMI....but it might help someone. I am an extra sexual person, so I am very concerned about my husband during my recovery. I always ask and make sure he is ok if it has been several days for him. (Helpful hint too, guys love this and he always thanks me for thinking of him) But, doesn't mean he always needs to. Anyway, helping him out always gets me "going" and of course this makes me nervous after this surgery. So I'm 2 1/2 weeks post op and I felt like I was about to die. So tonight we both had the big "O". Nothing inside for me at all, just outside stuff. And it was awesome. Everything worked and was more intense then before surgery. This could be for a lot of reasons, but....I will take it. It was a big relief, in more ways than one. Because I'm very scared about the first time when I released. So thankful my husband is so caring. Hope this helped one of my new friends.

Have you mentioned this to your doctor? Some doctors want complete pelvic rest and others are okay with external stimulation. It all depends on the doctor as they know what was done inside of you. Please follow your doctor's instructions.

I am with you coco we are too very active usually now for my TMI...... D

I don't think it's TMI. So long as the doc ok's outercourse, I think it's a good thing to let others know that the big O is possible. It was more intense for me after the surgery too.

I waited a whole 2 wks too and it seemed very intense too!