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10 days post hysterectomy - self stimulation - terrible stabbing pain
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05-15-2015, 03:07 AM
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Hysterectomy: May 4th, 2014
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10 days post hysterectomy - self stimulation - terrible stabbing pain
I'm ten days post op (partial supracervical) and gave the clitoral masturbation a try today. Vaginal wetness was the same as before surgery, sensation was close to the same but it took quite a while to reach orgasm. I was very scared to have the clench-y, squeez-y type of orgasm so when I felt it approaching, I backed off and breathed slowly and deeply, having the more "wave" like, more gentle orgasm.., if that makes any sense. Felt wonderful at the time but quickly after I had terrible, stabbing pain. Lasted the rest of the afternoon and evening. Now if I have a ***** thought and get even the slightest bit turned on, that pain will show itself again in spurts. Unfortunately I'm wildly *****, even though I'm feeling like crap from recovery. Got intimate with my hubby tonight - making out, me going down on him, no touching of my lady parts allowed. Sure enough, since I was turned on, again I had stabbing pain. I have not bled since three days after surgery though, and even then I only spotted. Trying to be patient! And Dr said 4 weeks before intercourse but I'm scared to try then. I'm going to lose my
Mind! Anyone else experience this? Lol
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05-15-2015, 06:09 AM
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Hysterectomy: May 4th, 2014
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10 days post hysterectomy - self stimulation - terrible stabbing pain
Sorry if I sound like a ****ball. Lol
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05-15-2015, 07:33 AM
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Posts: 19,781
Hysterectomy: May 29th, 2013
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Masturbation question
10 days may have been a bit early. As you're aware, orgasm involves squeezing and clenching muscles, either sharply or gently (the "wave"). It sounds to me as if your body is telling you that it's not ready to do that yet.
I think we're all curious to check out how our bodies respond after surgery! *grin* But if you're experiencing pain, that sounds like a signal that your body would prefer you (and the hubby) to hold off a bit longer.
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05-15-2015, 12:14 PM
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Hysterectomy: May 4th, 2014
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10 days post hysterectomy - self stimulation - terrible stabbing pain
Yeah, obviously. Just wondered if any others could relate. My drive is crazy right now! Lol
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05-15-2015, 12:59 PM
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Posts: 11,979
Hysterectomy: March 26th, 2012
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: 10 days post hysterectomy - self stimulation - terrible stabbing pain
Yes I can relate, my surge in libido started day two post op for me. It just about drove me crazy. A teenage boy going through puberty had nothing on me. The sensations were strong that it hurt. I felt like a wire that was strung too tight. The friction from just walking was terrible.
I understand the urge and the difficulty in waiting but until your doctor releases you, I suggest you hold off and that includes outercourse. Please check with him or her because you run the risk of infection with oral stimulation. Some doctors require compete pelvic rest, you'll want to know if yours is one that do or don't require it. Also as you see, your body can't handle the contractions right now. If the pain continues or is severe, I would give the doctor a call, you'll want to make sure everything is okay.
Here is an article that you may find helpful Libido Surge After Hysterectomy
in there, you'll get through it
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05-15-2015, 01:37 PM
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Hysterectomy: April 13th, 2015
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: 10 days post hysterectomy - self stimulation - terrible stabbing pain
So seriously, I think it's the swelling down there that causes the urge. I have it too. A really weird sensation of being super ***** and miserable from pain at the same time. I made it to 4 weeks where curiosity overrode my common sense and I gave into the temptation to see if it all worked correctly. It did. I had no pain, no problems, and was vastly relieved to know I can achieve the O and it all works fine. However, I am also following docs orders and I feel like I cheated the program. So no more for me until I get the big approval. Think it's always safest to be on the conservative side. Listen to your body and give it a few more weeks. It talks to you if you listen ))
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05-15-2015, 05:38 PM
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Hysterectomy: May 4th, 2014
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Re: 10 days post hysterectomy - self stimulation - terrible stabbing pain
I can control myself. Haha Lesson learned for sure. Even just a fleeting thought can get things wound up down there so I'm trying to push them out of my mind. Not going to engage in any kind of stimulation until after 4 weeks. Still no bleeding and the pain subsided after a couple hours thankfully. Felt like a darn teenager who knows better. So stupid. Lol
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