Just a lil frustrated

So...surgery is coming up. Had to make "to do" lists for my employees while i'm out, lists for committees i'm on, lists for hubby (we got thrown out of counseling - the marriage is really over), for my best friend as far as calls to make. Talked to Delta and can't get her a flight -- so i'm really on my own...except for hubby who is little if any support.

Mom called to see when surg was and says "guess we won't see you thanksgiving". Soooo...finally i'm just emotionally weirded out...and irritable.

I plan on thoroughly cleaning house this weekend, getting son to boyscouts and other things. Then next weekend, I "hope" to do nails and hair to feel a little better.

sheesh...it just needs to be over already!

i know how you feel, my family was no suport and told me it was not a big deal to have a hysterectomy and all i had for suport was my husband he was great but some times you need a lil more suport when going through something big. i sorry your hubby isnt suportive and for eveyr thing you have going on. this is a time you should concentrate on you and taking care of you not worrying about every thing else. good luck hun.
hugs
lisa

Hang in there and just do as much as you can before your surgery. I'm single and have older parents who are limited in what they can do to help. My brother and sister live out of town so basically, I'm on my own too.

I'm 2 weeks post op today and doing just fine. Just remember do only what HAS to be done and the rest can wait. Rest, Relax and Heal.