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  #1  
Unread 07-22-2003, 12:00 AM
Birth Control...

People have told Me to be greatful that I am having My hyst at such a young age... since I will never have a period again. I am thankful for that part.. the pain and constant bleeding will stop.

But here is my gripe... that so many times has turned into anger... even at those tha t I love~

There are so many of us that cannot have our own children due to circumstances beyond our control. And I see people everyday, that use abortion as a form of birth control. That infuriates Me. I cannot have choildren, and here they are, killing babies because they were too lazy to find a condom.

NOW~

I do think there are circumstances that it isn't such a bad thing... I am in law enforcement, and I see bad things happen to good people everyday...

But I am talking about gilrs that go and get pregnant, over and over again, knowing that abortion is an option, and taking that route...

It tears My heart out... I cannot have them, and I wanted a child so bad... it just doesn't seem fair~


*NOTE*
Things expressed here are simply MY opinion, and I mean no offense to anyone.
  #2  
Unread 07-22-2003, 07:38 PM
Birth Control...

Sometimes the way things happen doesn't seem fair. Those that really want children and would love them and give them good homes can't have them. And others who don't give a care about them after they have them just keep "popping them out". I am 100% against the abortion issue but won't get into that. Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. God Bless you.
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Unread 07-29-2003, 05:33 PM
i understand

I understand how you feel. I have the same anger, but I have 1 child.
I was furious after he was born premature hanging between life and death....furious that I was so careful to stay healthy yet there were people out there that didn't take care of themselves but their babies were fine. Then a nurse said to me, "God knew this baby was going to need extra love and care so he sent him to you." That eased my anger some.
As for abortion, I won't get into the politics of it but I will say that for some of those babies life would not have been any form of a life. Some would end up drug addicted with permanent damage. Others would be killed from abuse. I hate the thought of a fetus being killed....too many people out there want kids! I have kinda got side tracked and went in circles....sorry!
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