I am so sorry you are still having such trouble
I can relate to the kid issue... I have four and sometimes it is hard to care for them when I don't feel well. I still have pelvic pain since my hyst... which I have had to varying degrees for the last 13 years.... I also have had problems with endo and I think most of the stuff I have endured has been linked to that in some way.
You don't mention if these symptoms are new since the hyst or existed prior to the hyst.
You are still healing so hopefully some of the problems will subside with more time. I have read it can take up to a year for all the tissues to heal after a hyst. Have you tried posting in the Post-op forum as well?
You should definately be seeing your doctor about your on-going troubles. If you feel you are not being taken seriously, consider getting a second opinion.
I don't have similiar problems to you but it is my impression from reading other posts that sometimes the ovaries can have trouble after surgery... some of the symptoms you mention do sound like they could be hormonal. Maybe you could ask your doctor to test your hormone levels to check your ovaries? I am taking BCPs but more to try to control the pain than for HRT... I still have my left ovary.
Some other thoughts would be to ask your doctor about checking your thyroid hormone levels to make sure they are OK.
I do hope you find an answer. Keep after those doctors. I am not a medical person.
Keep us posted Lori!!