venting

I know that 2 weeks after surgery is not the time to me making major decession, but I guess I already did. my other half and i own our house togather, and planned on marrying SOMEDAY guess at my age and after being single for 10 years I just really wasnt rushing in to it. I have always known he loves me, but now wondering if he really has a clue to what love is. I have not had a home cooked meal since the surgery unless I planned it and told him step by step what needed to be done. everytime I say something needs to be done around the house he of course says he'll do it. but it doesnt get done.going places after work seem to be more important than just being with me,(even if I am in pain). so when i bring it up he comes home and just sits there not saying a word and making me feel as if I'm a inconvinouse.

well I've always taken care of my self. and feel the same way now, needless to say he wasnt real happy when he came home this evening to find all of his belongings out of My bedroom and in to the guest room. I dont know were its going from here but Im ready to get back on my feet again and take charge of my life again. Wondering why I everythought that I could depend on any one else. Very sad but also very head strong . and actully the moving around today made me feel better, hope I still feel that way in the morning. Thanks for letting me vent

Dear Kimmie:

I hope you are feeling better today... When I was post-op, my DH slept in the guest room so as not to bump against me in the nite....

Here is a website that may offer up some suggestions for communication: www.marriagebuilders.com

I am sending huge cyberhugs