11 days post op asnd a couple of hiccups

Guys,
sorry i haven't been on since my return from the castle but I have been taking it very slowly.
I have had a couple of issues and were hoping you could shed some light,
I am sure my large bowel is stuck to my wound / bladder inside because I can feel any wind it all sorts of strange places, it also hurts when it tries to get through near my bladder. I also haven't had a normal BM since coming out of hospital. In hosp I had such severe IBS my first BM was 24 hours of violent diarrhea! They had to give me mebeverine to spark it off. Great - it then became clear the volterol gave me diarrohea (hey ho at least I was going!!) so I stopped it and tried codiene instead. This lead to my gut shutting down completley!! (I think the stuff should be banned). I am now taking Milk of Magnesia last thing at night when I get to the end of 2 days and there is no sign of action. Does this ever sort it's self out?? Has anyone else had sluggish gut issues?
Secondly I apparently have a seroma. It's like a blood collection just under the wound but it's just clear fluid. Frightened me to death when the wound opened a bit and the fluid hit the wall opposite!! GP reckons it'll take about a week to dry up,
has anyone else had one??
Hope you sisters are all well.

Hi Tigger
Just wondering how you're doing. Have the problems settled down now?
Best wishes