Anyone else terrified of sex?

I'm 8 weeks today. Just finished my first full day back at work. Did better than I thought. But the horror stories I've read here make me really scared of sex. The latest being the lady at 4 months opened up internally. At 4 months that wouldn't of concerned me.
Now at 8 weeks I'm thinking DH will be waiting a very long time.

What? I didn't hear about that. Now you got me scared. I had my TAH one day after you and started having sex (very carefully) at about 3 wks. The first few times were more like a science experiment. My husband had to just be still so I could see what everything felt like and if it hurt or not. We are still very 'gentle' and I guess I still need to listen to my body. Just try it carefully and slowly. We are tough women and our bodies are very resiliant. good luck.