would you like a little cheese with that "whine"? Update

well hello sisters sorry i havent posted of late i was called out of town for a funeral, i lost my 23 yo neice, so at 6 wks. i had to drive 4 hrs to my sisters,(right after a silver nitrate tx) do all the paper work, buy everthing for the service/reception(my sis is very very poor), give the service,care for my sis, drove back home 5 days later, took 2 days to rest and recover, then was called to the hospital as my dear dear g'ma was admitted, and 7 days later passed away, that was 3 days ago, and every since then i have been in so much pain, i have a call into dr, but he is not in today, it feels like someone has there fist up my vagina, and is pulling hard, there is major pain where my left overy used to be, and now is making my back act worst than it has in weeks,i had to take 2 rx pain meds last night to get relief, and 1 this am with no relief, i am scheduled to go back to work on mon.(at 8 wks), and i feel like crap!!!!!!!!
i am so sorry for whining, but just needed to vent. it is too hot here to used heating pad, which was my best friend in the first few weeks post op, hopefully the dr will call back soon he is on call, wish me luck, and THANKS for letting me vent!!!!
det67

ong i am so sorry for both of your tragic losses...you really should go to the er if your in pain..you need to be checked out... we will keep you in our prayer...

sisterof3
i see you had surgery the same day i did how are you??
details please!

det67 - you are in my prayers. You've gone through a lot both physically and emotionally. Please take time to heal.

im doing ok..just this week has taken its toal on me...could be hormons could be men are driving me batty....i am in no pain,just sort of hollow..funny thing i guess i feel like i have taken vicoden and sort of feel like elastic..but i havent..lol power for the course... if your would like to private message me feel free..i know how you feel about loss,i lost my baby sister in aug last year ans am watching two other sisters fight cancer..so if you need a shoulder im here for you...or just to compair scars..lol

sisterof3
i am sorry to about your sisters, and they will be in my prayers, the loss cycle i am in seems endless, my g'ma is actully the 8th person to pass that i know in 2 months, the dr called me back and i am going in at 9am tomarrow, 1st apt. he is concerned, told me to take 2 darvocets every 4-6 hrs until he can see me in the am, so i think i will do so and lay down, i will get back on later, so if you also would like to pm me thats great!!
thanks for the support!!!!hugs
det67

det67,

I am so sorry for your losses. That certainly doesn't help the recovery process much to have all that emotional stress along with the physical demands of the journey. So many so close really takes its toll on you.

I am really glad you have an appt in the am. Hopefully whatever is causing the pain is an easy fix. And if not, then he should be able to keep you from having to start work on Monday.

Please let us know how your appointment goes. My prayers are with you.

Blessings,
Paula

Sweetie,
I am so sorry for all of your losses! You have been through so much lately and it sounds like it has taken a toll on your body. Please see your doctor ASAP (and if they are not available please go to an ER)... there is no reason to be in pain. If you are not ready to go back to work please consider postponing that... your health has to come first.

Good luck to you!

thank you all!!! i will post here after apt in am to let you know, until then, thank you again i wish i could put into words how much this site and all of my sisters means to me.
hugs hugs hugs,
det67

I am so sorry for your losses and the physical pain you are in. Please take care of yourself and I hope you get some pain relief soon.

Missy