I am sitting here crying...my doctor just called to tell me "someone" cancelled.....

Wow.. I am soooo sorry that happened also. I would be a mess if they told me that. I am going in the day after you now and this weekend is all about us. I am going to try to get our rooms rearranged. And I'm going to try and do some shopping for myself Saturday am. I think everything happens for a reason.. maybe someone would have done something wrong on that day so God spared you from it. Keep your chin up.. one more week to hang in there!!!

Thanks again everyone and I think I will take the advise (IF the pain will allow me to). I would love to be able to do something fun this weekend. Maybe I can go with my family to the Museum that my son has been talking about since his class took the field trip there. He wants to see the dinosaurs again.
Something positive will come of this~Even if I HAVE to make it positive. Not gonna let this ruin my week.
's to you all!! You are the greatest!!

So sorry you had to go through that i think it's absolutely ludicrous[sp?] that this happened to you, i agree with the other sister, you ought to call the office and ask how this happened and get some answers. Sending you...

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Originally Posted by liteshade So sorry you had to go through that i think it's absolutely ludicrous[sp?] that this happened to you, i agree with the other sister, you ought to call the office and ask how this happened and get some answers. Sending you...

I think calling the office might be a good idea. Its almost 3am here and I cannot sleep because I would like some answers on how this possibly happened. Although I didn't get far today when I called them back and asked WHEN my surgery was (due to the fact I was so upset I forgot to ask) !! Maybe I will just let it go....


I am sure that God is watching out for me and there is some higher power at work here that I may not understand. So I am honestly trying not to dwell on it and trying not to allow it to upset me.

My youngest DS (he is 12) asked me why I was so upset today about not having to have surgery and I explained it like this: "It would be like planning a vacation to Disneyland(Although I know this isn't like that and he does understand that as well) for the past 6 months and you plan, pack, have everything ready and you are very excited. And then you get a call that says 'Ohhh Disneyland is going to be closed for a week~you can still go but you just need to wait another week.' Its just disappointing like that." He said "OH" so I think he understood. Can't be sure since he is the quiet type. He tends to keep his thoughts to himself.

I am trying to be very optimistic and have a bright outlook on all this because being upset over it is no fun. I decided that since I got all my packing done, my house cleaned, and I am already to go that I am going to rest and pamper myself as much as possible. I may even soak up some sun over the weekend (using tons of sunscreen of course).
I am going to spend lotsa quality time with my kids and family and just have fun. Whether I can afford it or not!!
Plus my oldest DS has a concert Saturday (he is in a rock band) and I didn't think I would be able to go and now I can. So I am very excited about that!

Thanks again ladies for everything!! I don't know what I would do if I hadn't found this site and all the support that I have gotten here!

So sorry about the delay in your surgery. That really stinks after all the preparations you had to do and the bowel prep. Why didn't someone call you sooner to tell you the surgery was cancelled would be the key question I would want answered. Definitely take this weekend to pamper yourself and have lots of fun. You have a great attitude about it.

Hi Angie,
I know this is very frustrating for you. My mother's famous quote is "Everything happens for a reason", and I definitely believe God is watching out for you.
Best of luck to you!