Sexual Dysfunction

I am so glad to find out that I am not in this along. It's a terrible feeling not being as active as I was in having sex. Like some of you, my man is a good man and we use to have a wonderful sex life , but since my surgery, my sex drive has dropped to almost 0. We still engage in sex, but I have to build myself up to have it and than I don't really have an orgasm. My body parts are just not as sensative as they were before and sometimes I don't want to be touch.

I want my libido back, please can someone tell me what I can do.

I had to check to make sure that I wasn't the one who had posted this message! You sound exactly like me! I had my surgery 6 years ago--had a great sex life, usually with multiple orgasms. But since my surgery, no matter what we try, I am just not as sensitive, nor do I have the interest I had before. I had my cervix and uterus removed (ovaries remained), and I think having the cervix removed was part of the problem. My husband and I talk about what we can do and he's willing to try anything, but it's SOOOO frustrating that the surgery that was supposed to HELP improve my sex life made it more tedious.

Wow...it's like looking in a mirror. I feel the same way. zero zilch no sex drive. ugh it makes me cringe!!! I can't tell you the last time i had the big o.... I hate it when he touches my breasts and it tickles when he touches other places.. It's just not the same!