Breast Play Okay??

Hi Ladies:

I'm now 2 wks post op.

DH and I were just "fooling" around. I made sure he understood no pelvic activity meant no pelvic activity. I don't want to end up back at the castle.
Anyway, I was really enjoying some 'breast play' figuring it should be okay. But then this awful feeling of an urge to vomit came over me. I had to tell him to stop. This has never, ever happened to me before (in 24 years of marriage!).

Has anyone experienced this?

Thank you ladies for all your advice and comfort.

(((Martha)))
I don't think I've seen this particular thing happen on here before, but you never know, it just might not have been reported.

You are wise to be cautious with this activity, being so very early post op. I would have thought you were fine too. My guess is this was just an isolated incident where your system for some reason reacted to what was happening in your body. Were you taking any pain meds at the time and have you been having any hormonal craziness?

Your body has been through a traumatizing experience. You might want to just give it a little more time and try again. I can't imagine it being a permanent problem, but just one of those freak happenings most likely caused by a hormone imbalance. Maybe concentrate on hugging and being close that way for a week or so.
's, Rita

Thank you Rita, of course you're right.

Everything is going to be strictly off limits now!! DH will have to wait.

Have a great evening!!

I'm sorry you experienced that. I didn't have that feeling and my doctor told me no penetration, but we could use our imaginations. I asked about 4-play down there and she said thats fine. The reason for no penetration was because of the stitches in side. But listen to your body and use your imaginations!

I'm sorry but what does DH stands for....i'm new here. Is it Darling Husband or **** Husband...someone please tell me

LOL!!

It's supposed to stand for Dear Husband . . but sometimes . . .

For quite some time I tried to understand what LOL stands for, now that one of the sisters is asking about DH i got the courage to ask!

LOL = Laughing Out Loud

Thanx Catlady, I'm a lot smarter now!

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Originally Posted by blooming Rose I'm sorry you experienced that. I didn't have that feeling and my doctor told me no penetration, but we could use our imaginations. I asked about 4-play down there and she said thats fine. The reason for no penetration was because of the stitches in side. But listen to your body and use your imaginations!

Catlady, I'm sorry you had that nauseating experience.

I too have indulged in breast play with DH but did not have anything like that happen. I did end up hurting though, leading me to question if it was a wise decision.

It ended up being more than just breast play...there was clitoral stimulation as well. I think it would have been alright if my body had not done the jerky spasm thing that sometimes accompanies orgasms.

Rose, I am releived to hear your doctor said that because for some reason I am like a cat in heat right now...which makes no sense! That stuff was removed so what gives?!?

I have my post-op appointment tomorrow and will share any info I get about it.