Intimacy at 5 weeks post op

I am five weeks post op, and i love my DH. We got carried away. It wasn't total penetration but i have had abdo cramp ever since..I know i am stupid..I also have BM probs though,so it could be this.
Am i the only one who got carried away with a moment!! lol

I don't think ur you are the only one... I'm 4 weeks post op, and have been really tempted to do what you did... lol... If the cramps don't go away within a day or so I would call the doc.

i have waited hours for someone to join me!! haha,and you haven't actually been as bad as i have! Feeling a bit better now. Just been out for a ten minute walk, shattered...how will i ever work again?
I'm hoping the next two weeks will see my much more back to normal..:-)

Hey there.
I think you should maybe call your doctor's office and fess up if you are still hurting - the main concerns are tearing (if they took your cervix) and infection. I'm sure you aren't the first in their practice to do it too early.
I know six weeks is the "benchmark" for most, but I am nearly seven weeks out and DO NOT have the green light, and dr. doesn't think I will for another two weeks or so. So its more of a healing issue (which differs wildly) than a "time" issue. Let us know you're ok!

I only waited 3 weeks, then was terrified i had hurt myself because i was hurting and burning and didnt know if it was because of what hubby and i did or just normal. I am almost 11 weeks post-op and feeling so much better now but i wouldnt wish all the worring i did on anyone! Take care and let us know how your doing.

Peyton, did you got to the doctor or ride it out?
x Nat x

Evergreene..yeah you're right,in everything..lol...
I was very very careful and i didn't feel like ( sorry for this!!) anything was reallypushing in,it certainly wasn't a full blown act! Oh God,I am such a nerd!

Well Girls
AS I said previously , my BF and I intend to "launch" next week which will be the 6 week mark. Doc said ok but proceed with caution. Which I will. I've discussed this with my BF who is afraid he might hurt me and odesn't want to do it. I on the other hand, have said u dont need to protect me from me. Rather, I need u to help me gently explore how far I/We should go. He finally agreed, so we'll c. Will let u know. M

OOPS!! naft, I didn't tell my Dr. until my post-op which was at 7 weeks. I had to cancel the one i had for 6 weeks. M Dr. is a 2 hour drive away from home and he felt confident i wouldn't need to be seen until then. Anyway, he just kinda smiled as if he hears that a lot and asked how i was feeling ,and any pain issues i was having. I guess what i was feeling was normal, THANK GOD!!! I was really scared for awhile. I thought i was the only one also that let my libido get the best of me,lol. Glad to know i wasn't the only one!!! Poor hubby felt just awful that he might have hurt me. But i was the one who kept telling him it would be OK if we did and like you it wasn't all the way LOL!!!!!! Let me know how your doing.

You are not the only one.