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Unread 08-20-2008, 01:57 PM
Orgasm After Hysterectomy

Hello, I'm a newbie and am nervous about my upcoming hysterectomy!

My reasons for a hysterectomy are major bleeding and clotting for, sometimes, weeks at a time - but no pain (during sex or otherwise).

My concern is losing my ability to orgasm as hard and heavy as I do now (Upcoming TMI: I'm a squirter). I've read on here other women's fears of orgasms becoming lost or non-existent and also the great feedback that not all (or even a lot of) women lose their ability, but that they have even better orgasms than before. But from reading all of those posts, I haven't heard of anyone that squirted... I'm tempted to even cancel the hysterectomy if I lose this!

Does anyone have experience in this, or know of others' outcomes??
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Unread 08-20-2008, 03:43 PM
Orgasm After Hysterectomy

Sorry I'm not a squirter, but I would love it if I could.

As far as the big "O" goes, mine is better than ever. Now it didn't happen right away. It took a few months of trying. I had small ones at first then over time they got bigger and better.

Not having aunt flow anymore is TOTALLY AWSOME!!!

Now I can have sex anytime, anyplace and any where! YEA BABY!!
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Unread 08-20-2008, 06:56 PM
Orgasm After Hysterectomy

"squirting" is nothing but urine loss during orgasm..I know NASTY knowing that now huh...I was all about it till I learned exactly what it was. I'll stick with my O's =0P
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Unread 08-20-2008, 09:34 PM
Orgasm After Hysterectomy

Sorry, I don't agree with you, Kit. I've had orgasms before I started squirting, and from then, to the ones I have now, I'm not just urinating on my DH. I know the difference.

But that wasn't really what I was asking - I was asking the women who *have* squirted whether they were still able to after an hysterectomy.
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Unread 08-20-2008, 09:45 PM
Orgasm After Hysterectomy

oh well I dunno..Im just giving the medical thing and they clam hysterectomy don't prevent it so you should still be good.
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Unread 08-21-2008, 05:30 AM
Orgasm After Hysterectomy

my orgasms are the same as before my hysterectomy in all ways. i did keep my ovaries and cervix..i dont know for sure if that makes a difference.
squirting is not urine..its a proven fact.
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Unread 08-21-2008, 06:27 AM
Orgasm After Hysterectomy

Curious about this as well! Since remarrying, I have thankfully discovered this ability. I don't know why it wouldn't work as it is a stimulation of the g-spot that causes this and not the cervix.

I will not argue what it is or isn't, but I will say I am not purposely having a wee on my husband! There are various studies on the consistency and there is or can be urine mixed in, but then I bet a regular orgasm could contain the same. Either way I hope it still works and guarantee the hubby does too!


Stacy I guess we can be thankful we have more than one option and hopefully both work after surgery lol.
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Unread 08-21-2008, 06:32 AM
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Not a squirter though after my hyst my vaginal secretions have not changed. Kept ovaries though and I think this is a major factor. Those hormones are important. Also orgasm is good 9 weeks out from surgery but I do not get the flush in my face or chest that I did. The sensation is still good though and I am working on it hopefully things will improve. I think the blood flow is different though. I also was told by my gyne that as long as the ovaries are in the vaginal secretions will not change.
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Unread 08-21-2008, 07:45 AM
Orgasm After Hysterectomy

Hi All,
A very interesting Q I havn't seen yet, good for you for asking Stacy!

I had surgery last OCT. I was able to squirt before surgery and after. The only difference I felt was that I was not that interested in sex for about 2 months afterword, but now my libido is back to normal.

The best thing is not having heavy periods anymore and because the fibroids were removed I can sleep all night without having to get up and go to the bathroom.. I didn't even suspect the fibroid was causing this, even thought the doc asked many times.
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Unread 08-21-2008, 09:00 AM
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Originally Posted by davinci817
Stacy I guess we can be thankful we have more than one option and hopefully both work after surgery lol.
I hope so too!! This has been causing my DH and I some serious discussions. I was tempted to opt-out of the surgery if squirting was something that went away... Maybe not a good idea, but I think it's THAT important.

Good Luck to you, BTW!!


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Originally Posted by KallaLilly
A very interesting Q I haven't seen yet, good for you for asking Stacy!
Thanks


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Originally Posted by KallaLilly
I was able to squirt before surgery and after. The only difference I felt was that I was not that interested in sex for about 2 months afterword, but now my libido is back to normal.
I have HOPE!!

And thanks for the answers I've gotten so far. It gives DH and I something to talk about... Please don't stop posting!
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