Hubby says sex feels different, feels different for me too

I had hyst in June and we tried sex just after released. I usually get to the o with outside stimulation first then we have intercourse. This time we just had the intercourse with lots of lube and he said that it felt different but couldn't explain to me what he meant. We are really open about what we like and don't and our opinions about our sex life but I am perplexed. Want to know if other hubbies have voiced this opinion? My O's are different now 9 weeks out of surgery as far as not giving me the flushed face and head and release that I used to feel. Anyone have that and does that get better? Thank you

My doc took everthing but my cervix. DH says it doesn't feel any different on his end, and on my end it doesn't feel any different, with that said, although the Big O is still there, it is not as intense as it used to be, and (sorry if TMI), but KY Lube has become my new best friend.

I am almost a year out ladies and I must say that it does get better. I never could have the big o with intercourse before anyway, but I must admit it feels the same as before with outercourse as it did before now. Just give yourself some more time to heal internally. Also, remember to relax! As far as complaints from my husband, he says it is still good to him.
Janelle

Thanks for response azeala I love the ky too. Even before hyst used cause my hormones were up and down. Find that it keeps me from getting yeast infections. I love the Silk-E formula it is a little better than original if you haven't tried it yet. The doc took my cervix so I am wondering if he is feeling the end? He is not that big but I have heard that most vaginas are 3 inches so I wonder if this is the case?

Thats one thing I'm worried about... I got everything took out except my ovaries... and my cervix was prolapsed into my vagina. dr told me in a few years it would have been outside my vigina. I just hope it doesnt feel empty or loose in there when me and my boyfriend do have sex. Since there is no cervix to hit what does the penis hit now?

Hubby says that it isn't that it feels loose because I was scared of that too. He couldn't explain and next time I will be harder on him to describe it. I feel okay but was scared because when I have a BM I can feel my vagina "moving" when I couldn't before. "Felt like it was coming down" but could by my spazoid brain looking for bad things that might happen.

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Originally Posted by dottiemo Hubby says that it isn't that it feels loose because I was scared of that too. He couldn't explain and next time I will be harder on him to describe it. I feel okay but was scared because when I have a BM I can feel my vagina "moving" when I couldn't before. "Felt like it was coming down" but could by my spazoid brain looking for bad things that might happen.

When my Dr did my LAVH he did a McCall Culdeplasty at the same time to keep my vagina from falling. I wonder how long before I can put my finger in there and actually feel for myself whats there? This kinda got me worried.

My husband said it doesn't feel any looser either. He actually likes it better because I had endo as well as cervical cancer it always hurt when he hit my cervix and he is fairly large, so now he doesn't have to see me wince in pain. But ever since my surgery he has not felt inside there with his fingers if you know what I mean, so I am thinking there is something that must freak him out a little bit. I figure if he can still "finish" I am not going to worry about it. There is nothing I can do about it now. I have felt in there, and the top just feels like the sides now. So it is all soft. Try not to worry too much ladies. It is too late to go back and get your cervix back and remember you are healthier now and that is what matters.
Janelle

penis will hit the cerivical cuff, if they took out the cervix they make a "pretend" one. There are some great articles on here about the length of your vagina with the cuff. I was worried that I would be shortened, but I guess we are not.