Overweight and want sex but embarrassed?

My libido is coming back but I'm so big now that I don't even want to get undressed much less anything else. AND I'm still bleeding at random intervals. Arrggghh! Any thoughts?

Sherri

Think you should see the Doctor as bleeding shouldn't happen at all with that surgery. There should be nothing to bleed anymore, so maybe your vaginal cuff has an infection or something.

i agree..if youre still bleeding, you need to be examined. your surgery was just about 8 months ago.

I agree with the others to call your doctor.

As for how you feel. Everyone is beautiful for being different. A large population of men actually prefer a woman with meat on their bones. You can be sexy and attractive without being a size zero. BBW's are sexy. Just make sure you are healthy at whatever weight you are. Confidence is a helluva turn on to men, if you feel sexy you give off the vibe to others to view you as sexy.