emotional pain worse than physical pain

I am having a DH Feb 18th. I have been in severe pain over 2 years. I needed morphine a while ago...needless to say, I can't keep up on the chores, etc. My husband still expects me to be cheery, pleasant, energetic and keep the house spotless. I really need him to give me some TLC and bring me meds when I can't peel myself off the couch. Please pray he can be more understanding and compassionate. he doesn't like for me to get outside help. And when I try real hard to cook and do the dishes sometimes I faint and he thinks I'm faking it. God has given me strength to get enough done, and hope for a better future...but my hubby is really hard to be around when I don't meet his expectations. I am afraid this pain won't go away.

I am sorry you are having problems with health and husband. I will pray for your health, strength, and for your husband to be more compassionate and helpful towards you and what you are going through.

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I'm sending prayers that things get better for you soon.

I really appreciate it. He went off on me this morning about what a hypocrite I am with the house not being clean, and about how all the problems in the house are my fault. I have tried explaining to him the amount of pain I'm in, how I need to feel appreciated for what I do get done, and how I really need him to nurture me right now. He thinks that I am angry all the time because of the look on my face...it's pain. I hurts to know my husband believes all this negative stuff about me, and acts on it.

I am sending prayers that you both getwell and both get the help you need and deserve.....(((((HUGZ)))))