If you've looked around the message boards of this site, then you've probably figured out that the focus here at HysterSisters.com is support for women who are seeking information about hysterectomies, as well as for those who are scheduled for, or recovering from, that surgery.
There are hormone forums on this site but they are specifically intended for women who have had a hysterectomy, with or without an oophorectomy. The hormone needs of a woman with an intact uterus and ovaries are different from those of us who no longer have those organs and our experiences won't necessarily be the same.
I do know of two popular website communities that are geared toward support for women in natural menopause. One is power-surge.com
and the other is minniepauz.com
. Have you visited those sites? If not, then I hope you will because I'm sure you'll get the best support from women who can most closely relate to your situation.
If I've misunderstood your post and you have had a hysterectomy, or are considering one, then please reply back on this thread with additional information so that we can better determine where you will get the best input for your particular circumstances.
Sending all good wishes!