Boyfriend is leaving beacuse I can't have kids

Hang in there sweetie, I'm sure you will find someone who will appreciate you for who you are. Everything happens for a reason and I'm sure you will come through this stronger and happier. Concentrate on healing and then get on with your life.

I am so sorry. I can't imagine how much that must hurt. I'm mad at him for doing this to you, his timing is cruel and selfish. Please come here often to let us support you.

I'm sorry you are going through this. You are not broken, or any less a woman. This man was not nice in the way he handled this. Hard to know if he wasn't honest at first, or changed his mind, but the fact that he started the breakup on the phone tells me he may not be as kind as he could be. You are right, he is not the one. You deserve someone who loves you as a real person, through health problems and life crises, not someone who leaves as soon as you are in need. But it's still painful when it happens. There are men happy to not have kids, or to start a family in other ways, if that is your goal, and men who will stand by you. When you feel better, I hope you meet someone right for you. Feel free to vent any time here, we are here for you.

Hi there. So sorry for the losses you're experiencing, both of your fertility and your relationship. It's just not fair to have to cope with all of this at once. I am older now, but when I was just a little older than you my husband left me. He wouldn't say it was over my infertility but I know it was. He went right out and married a much younger woman and they had kids right away. It took me a long time to get over that. But it reveal his values and character, and ultimately I was better off. Then after my hysterectomy for cervical cancer last February my boyfriend broke up with me. He waited until I was mostly recovered and ready to be intimate then he told me. I think he just couldn't handle the cancer issue, even though I have a very low recurrence risk. And he was unhappy with the interruption in his sex life. Again, values and character were revealed under stress, but it's what you need to know before you commit. Grieve, then realize you dodged a bullet. Something better will come your way. Just heal and look to the future.

Sweetheart you, like all other women, are NOT a baby making machine meant to provide him with heirs, you are a beautfiul individual person, and still every bit a woman,if it somehow works out great, but if he can't see that then he never did and you deserve much, much better-we all do! <3 to you!

Sorry, he was not the man for you!! I had a total hyst when I was 27 i had been married for just 4 years and my DH didnt say "oh Im gonna leave you cause we cant have kids" he stood by my side!! If he realy loved you he would have stood by your side in good times and in bad!!

Theres someone out there that will see past that!!

By the way I am 39 now, have been married for 15 years and we have the cutest adopted son!! He is 6

I agree with everyone. He is not a real true man. Concentrate on you and you will find someone who loves you for you. Just pray about it and take care of you! Take care