Advice for those unable to have kids, including myself

This is what a dear friend of mine told me upon hearing of my hysterectomy.

She is the most comforting and understanding woman I have ever known when it comes to her attitude towards women who are unable to have children biologically.


"If your body is physically unable to have kids, God will send someone to do it for you".

"I am in no way telling you to go out and adopt. Listen to your heart and hear what God is telling you to do in this circumstance, let your heart be your guide here".

(((((hugs)))))))

I love you all, remember you are never alone in this. I know completely what you are going through. Have comfort in these words from a dear friend of mine, a sister through Christ.

That was so well written,If only I had such a letter durring my battle with infertility!!!!I did end up adopting two beautiful girls who were my fosterchildren and have lived each day understanding that this was God's plan for me and that it all worked out in the end.That is'nt too say I dont wish things could have been different for me I think that is only human but just that one should never close themselves off to other avenues.Infertility is a long and very personal road to travel it just helps to know there are alot of others that face and move on as you so nicely pointed out.Thank you for your Post.Felecia.

I feel exactly the same way. I am completely conviced that God intended for me and my husband to be parents, and that he sent my beautiful daughter to us!! We adopted her about 18 months ago.

It's true, you do have to listen to God, but the answer will be there.

God Bless to all,

Kristi