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Not as disciplined as I meant to be 04-24-2010 - 04:16 PM
Noni, I wish I lived closer too! That would be so much fun!

Well, I've already blown my budget I was trying to do this month. I decided that since the thing hasn't gone through yet, and we don't even know what WILL happen, that I would go ahead and get "a few things" as in herbs, etc. So, I went and bought the cat litter (MUST have) and then ran to various nursery's with my folks buying things here and there. Finally, we ended back at our local farm store so my dad could buy some potting soil. He was having trouble finding it in the store--he was looking for the store's own brand which is cheaper. I ended up going in with him and saw this cool bucket on wheels that you use in the garden. My dad has a bad back--he even had surgery on it a few years ago, but the surgery didn't do squat except make him hurt more. So, even though I'd meant to wait until Father's day, I couldn't stand the thought of him hauling all his plants, potting soil, etc from the back to the front yard over and over, lifting and bending more than he needed etc.

So, I bought the bucket.

I am not patting myself on the back. See, I didn't even think about how much I was spending, and when I got home, I was shocked to see that I had spent over $100 on plants, grass seed etc! I use my debit/credit card. Usually, the amounts wait about a day of "pending" before they show the actual withdrawal from my account, but I guess because of the large amount showing, it went ahead and is showing what I can expect. However, ONE charge needs to be removed as I decided not to get one plant that would have been over $18. (Sorry, I hope I'm not making anyone uncomfortable with me talking about money like this.)

This is where I get into trouble--the term "Nickle and Dime to death" really does make sense. I didn't stop and think about how much I was actually spending as here it was "only" this amount and there only "this amount".

Anyway, I have a special account for the house, so I decided to cover some of the cost from that. However, I am still not going to do boarder for awhile until I do know what will be decided about our State Budget.

At least though, I have my herbs, and mom bought me a $1 tomato at her Garden Club plant sale (a Cherokee Purple).

Of course, again, I didn't think wisely about the grass seed when I bought it. It occurs to me that I will have to do a lot of watering until the seed is established which means making my water bill go up all the more.

Gardening is NOT a cheap hobby.


 
NoniOhio said at 04-26-2010 - 02:28 PM
I grew up in a family that was poor. We had to watch every penny spent. I guess since I grew up that way - it's sort of natural for me to do that. So when I read that you don't know how much you've spent until after you've spent your money - well - that's a real foreign concept to me.

As for the grass seed. One year after a drought - we needed to put in grass seed so the yard would be green again. We bought hay to cover the seed - and that helped the grass from getting too dry. I've also seen some stuff that can be sprayed over grass seed to help it take root without needing to have an enormous water bill. I'm sure you'll find what will work best for you.

 


diverchick said at 04-26-2010 - 07:20 PM
It's easy to go out for a few things....and come out with a lot more than you planned on. When I grew up, my parents both had very differing theories on money and that made for a lot of interesting times. I find I'm a mixture of both parents. However, put me in a Target or Walmart...and before i know it, i come o ut with a lot more than i went in with.
I"m hoping you don't have to put the budget into force.....and that you escape any cuts.
As far as the grass seed.....I have 2 brown thumbs, so I'm afraid I can't help you there!
Sure hope you have a wonderful week! HUGS~

 


news said at 04-27-2010 - 06:52 AM
I grew up much like Noni...we just didn't have the money, so I am very careful of where my money goes. Uhhhh that is till I get around baby stuff! LOLOL It is so hard to stick to a plan, but it is very helpful if you can at least be more mindful of it. And you are certainly doing that! So maybe you are on the road to saving!

Gardening is expensive, but if you do it right...well worth all the rewards!

And I think it was very sweet to get that bucket on wheels for your Dad...budget or no budget. Sometimes you just have to do it.

Good luck with the shawl too. My sister is the master knitter... lol I am like you, only good at Afgans. lol I'm sure you will do a beautiful job!
Love, news

 


 

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