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Court right after surgery
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07-16-2013, 07:28 AM
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Posts: 101
Hysterectomy: July 25th, 2013
Surgery Type: TAH/SAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Court right after surgery
amazingly enough its not my brain that needs surgery. I cant afford an attorney and there is no pro bono over here. But thank you
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07-16-2013, 07:45 AM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 101
Hysterectomy: July 25th, 2013
Surgery Type: TAH/SAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Court right after surgery
This i thought was great advice. thank you. i have pre op today so I'll ask then as well. Thanks so much people!!
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07-16-2013, 08:20 AM
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Posts: 19,781
Hysterectomy: May 29th, 2013
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Court right after surgery
Going to court is as much about appearance and emotion as it is about the presentation of the facts. I'd suggest milking that wheelchair for all it's worth. Present yourself as someone who's strong enough and determined enough that you're willing and able to come into court a week after having major abdominal surgery in order to fight to get your son back.
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07-16-2013, 09:27 AM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 101
Hysterectomy: July 25th, 2013
Surgery Type: TAH/SAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Court right after surgery
That was the plan......anything for son. I just cant take pain meds that day so that will suck
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07-16-2013, 09:41 AM
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Posts: 19,781
Hysterectomy: May 29th, 2013
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Court right after surgery
You can't take *narcotic* pain meds that day. You can still take OTCs like ibuprofen (Advil) and acetaminophen (Tylenol, paracetamol).
I had a TAH/BSO and only had narcotic pain meds for the three days I was in the hospital. I lost the epidural catheter that was delivering them at 8 AM on the third day and was relased that afternoon with instructions to take ibuprofen and/or acetaminophen as needed. I took them pretty regular for the first week, occasionally during the second week.
So a week after surgery, it's entirely possible that you won't be on narcotic pain meds anymore.
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07-16-2013, 09:57 AM
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Posts: 101
Hysterectomy: July 25th, 2013
Surgery Type: TAH/SAH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Court right after surgery
well actually today i just received my papers back. I didnt pay them enough. grrr. i have to resend them. I will next week. I cant take nsaids....three ulcers.....but great advice. i do thank you. I think my biggest worry know is the morphine. morphine doesnt really affect me at all.
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07-16-2013, 10:07 AM
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Posts: 19,781
Hysterectomy: May 29th, 2013
Surgery Type: TAH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Court right after surgery
How are you on other opioids? I was on Dilaudid (hydromorphone) while I was in the hospital. A lot of people are given codeine or compounds containing codeine.
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07-16-2013, 11:42 AM
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Posts: 36,890
Hysterectomy: November 14th, 2000
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Court right after surgery
No, but unfortunately it can take awhile for all the meds and anesthesia used during surgery to leave your system. Thus, you may not be able to think or present your case clearly one week after surgery, even if you avoid narcotics the day of court. Any weakness on your part could be exploited by your ex and his attorney. They could use it to prove you are incapacitated which could hamper your ability to regain custody of your toddler son.
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07-16-2013, 11:10 PM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 128
Hysterectomy:
Surgery Type: DvH
Ovaries: Removed both
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Re: Court right after surgery
Unfortunately the effects of anesthesia can also linger after surgery ad make it harder to think and reason. After one of my surgeries I couldn't read or write for 3 days. Everything looked like it was written in Russian. I think it's the height of cruelty to make you come to court this soon Post Op. How can you reasonably defend yourself well under these circumstances? I wouldn't count on the wheelchair as a plea for pity. It could back fire with the wrong Judge and appear an obvious move. I still hope they give you an extention. This is awful for you, poor dear.
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07-17-2013, 03:22 AM
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HysterSister
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Posts: 102
Hysterectomy: July 2nd, 2013
Surgery Type: TVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: Court right after surgery
I totally feel for you.... Stress is not what you should be dealing with so soon before or after major surgery. Buy the pocket binder and freezer packs too (get extras) and use it all the time. It will help you keep 'together' around your tummy so that coughing, talking and stress will be better managed as it will support the area. It will help keep your swelling down and the ice packs double up as Aircon to keep you focused too. The binder, although seems expensive is worth every penny and it will help you feel in control too. I only took paracetomal and an anti inflammatory tablet 40hrs post op for the first 10 days, now nothing at all (still aches though). So you might be ok and not have to worry about meds - but the binder though now as you'll need to allow for delivery (look for voucher/coupons too as I saved something like 20%). Wishing you the very best of luck! X
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