Scared

Ok so I know that a hysterectomy is in my future, it is November 12th. I am so scared now. I have know for a few years that it is what needs to be done to relieve my pain. I just have been putting it off. Last night I couldn't sleep because I really don't want to do it. But if I don't guess what? A hysterectomy is still in my future. I read last night in the Hyster book about someone who got several opinions hoping a Dr would tell her something different. Maybe I shouldn't read the book right before I go to bed. Well that is me I am looking for someone to say "There is an alternative" But I haven't heard those words. I told myself last night I wasn't in that much pain, I can put it off. This morning I woke up and my side is killing me. I am trying to pray but sometimes it is hard to pray for yourself. I wish the surgery was tomorrow.

I had a TVH last week (10/21), and I have to tell you that I have absolutely no regrets. The surgery was a breeze, and the recovery hasn't been that big of a deal. Yes, it has slowed me down drastically (I'm used to being on the go constantly, and have two very young children that keep me hopping), but overall, the pain has been very minimal for me. The biggest surprise for me has been how tired I get doing the simplest of tasks. Otherwise, it has been such a blessing. I stopped bleeding the day after surgery, and there hasn't been a drop of blood since. How awesome is that? No cramps, no bleeding . . . sounds pretty good to me!

I'm sorry that you have to have surgery in order to "cure" the problem, but I'm telling you, the new outlook on the "other side" is pretty darn good.

Best wishes for an uneventful surgery and an easy recovery.

Kim

Shelly,
I am having mine the same day as you. The wait sure is nerve racking. But ya now, two weeks will zoom by. I also and nervous cause I've never stayed in a hopital before either. Just keep reading on here, any questions or concerns you have will be answered by someone.

See ya on the other side
Pat

Hi Shelley,

I am now 6wks post op and can honestly assure you I was scared stiff about my forthcoming hyst. The surgery was a breeze, you really have nothing to worry about. Like you I kept thinking hey the period pain etc is not so bad, I am so glad I had it done now. I am sure you will be too once its over.

Its pretty good on this side, trust me.

My prayers are with you

Take care, everything will be fine.

Shelly,

I am with you. I have been kinda talking myself out of surgery. The pain isn't THAT bad right?? The periods for 2 1/2 weeks aren't that inconvenient...I'm scared and I am not looking forward to not being "me" for weeks. But today all doubt was shot down again. In extreme pain I had to take a midterm in my microbiology class. I thought I was going to throw up it hurt so bad. Then to top it off when I got home I realized I had bled so bad that my jeans were stained all over-not to be graphic. I am so TIRED of it, I'm ready, scared and all.

Good luck to you sweetie!!!!!

HUGS

Thanks for the comfort, it really does help. I guess there are days I am just going to cry. It is good to talk about it and good to know that you are there to help along the way. I am losing a part of myself and am fearful on how it will all be in the end. Yes there will be less pain but what will I be like? My life and body have been ruled by my hormones. What is going to happen to me without them?

I had my surgury last year. The worst part of the whole thing was waiting for the day to arrive to have the surgery. I had never had surgery before. I had no idea what to expect so like most I expected the worst. Much to my surprise all the worry was for nothing. My biggest worry was that my life would be put on hold for a long period of time, that I would not see the outside world or people in general. The morning after the surgery the nurse came in to tell me that they would get me up after the doctor saw me and they took out the catheter. She told me then that the more I walked the faster i would heal. That was all she had to tell me. I asked if I couldn't get up with the catheter and hold it while I walked. She told me It would be okay. I got out of the bed by myself and took my first walk right then. The nurse was very surprised. I never stopped from there. I got up 1 time every hour during the day and walked the length of the hospital hall., so the wait is truly the hardest part of the whole ordeal...... Good Luck Ladies. Jackie

keep telling us this is the right thing to do and reminding us to walk. You all make having surgery sound as if it is the best choice in the world. Thanks!!! right now that is what I need to hear. Somehow feeling crummy and coming upon the surgery, we all get questions...what's up with that? Good luck and best wishes to all LIW!