honkerblonked off and crying

i just found out today that i will have to wait at least another 2 or 3 months before i can have any thing done......i cant do this any longer the pain and the crying i just cant.....do they think i am made of stone or medal i hurt i breath and i bleed..why does no one care or understand all cus they made a mistake with my ontario health card.....idont know whatto do any more beside sit here and cry
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I'm so sorry this happened. Don't despair you are not alone. The months will fly by and before you know it you will be on the post op side. hang in there, good luck.

Oh, sweetie

I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. I also waited for three months before having my surgery. Although it was my own choice, there were times when the pain I was experiencing made it difficult.

Every time I was in pain, I tried to think of it as confirmation that I'd made the right decision. It didn't help the pain, but it did help my emotional coping a bit.

Are there any pain medications that help take the edge off the pain for you? Perhaps you could get a prescription for that to help you through. Also, let things go other than what absolutely has to be done. If you need to come home from work and lie down with a heating pad instead of washing the kitchen floor, then that's what you should do. Take care of yourself as much as you can, and that will help a little.

I'm sending you extra bit

tigger - Can you go back to your family doctor and get a referral to another gyno that will do the surgery faster? Even if you have to travel a little bit, it would be worth it. By the way, what is the story behind your health card?

i went and had to renew my health card they sent me one with the 2 letter code on it when i ended up in the hospital on Saturday i was told my health card code was wrong and i had no health cover so i have to go back again on Thursday.....here's hoping that i get it fixed....i am seeing a new doctor on Friday so here's hoping

If you go to the Government office that issues the health cards, they will issue you a temporary card if the one you have isn't valid or here is a toll free number that you can call: 1-800-664-8988. (Hubby just looked it up in the phone book for you) =)

I am glad that you are seeing a new doctor as you shouldn't have to wait that long for surgery. I was put on the priority list (not the urgent list) and had my surgery in one month. You sound like your issues are much more urgent than mine. I was in no pain but I did have an extended stomach and my bladder couldn't hold more than a quarter cup at a time. So I am hoping that this new doctor will speed things up for you.

good luck tigger! that is disheartening but hang in there and keep looking to the post-op side of this.

Thank you so much for all your kind words im going to tomorrow to get a new temp card then in the afternoon going to see a new doctor to see when i will be going in prays to all of you and hugs