he dumped me the day before surgery (7/25)

this guy who owns a karate studio in <Admin. Note: Name of city and state removed for privacy reasons.>
just dumped me via email the day before surgery so oh yeah this is not looking up for me..... the man apparently cant go without sex for six weeks....geez.... i already took the "clean me out stuff" so oh yeah my mood is just STELLAR....what a jerk. i'm so hurt i'm not scared anymore about the surgery... I just dont care.:

It probably won't help, but a selfish, uncaring guy like that you don't want. So sorry you are having this experience.
Sabrina

yeah me too. his studio is acrss from <Admin. snip> so it hurts he wont be there. there was no reason to do that to me the day before.

What a jerk. Hope all goes well tomorrow. Forget about that idiot and take care of yourself. Remember this if he tries to sniff around in six weeks.

ive known him for 14 years. this hurts and i just dont need it today. God I hope karma exists

I think Karma does exist. I agree he is an insensitive jerk. You focus on yourself. Sounds like he would not have been much help to you anyway. Lean on your support people. Keep thinking you are a Queen and relax into relaxing. :Princess

thank you SHA SHA...would be easier if he wasnt next door.....

He clearly does not deserve the total awesomeness that is you. While I agree, he is nothing more than a sniveling little it who does not know the first thing about how to be a man, be grateful he is right across the street. When you meet someone worthy of you, he will be eating his heart out every time he sees you healthy and happy. Carry on, babe.

thank you so much. just hurts....a lot. any man who could do that.....is sick. i agree. I'm also the chick with the custody battle going on so someone should write a book about me..lol.....

What a total idiot. I would try to forget about him and realize that he really is a jerk. Anyone who does this is a total jerk. He doesn't deserve you. When you see him, just realize that with time you will be able to move on and forget him. Anyone who does this the night before surgery is a horse's patoot!!! Use the time to recover and focus on you. Time does heal this Sending hugs for you