I have had my hysterectomy planned about a month.... things are planned for day before and days after, daughter to and from school plan down, work is being nice about it,... ya know everything to prepare for being out of commission for a while...
WELL recently DH is all inquisitive if I'm nervous, if I still want to do the surgery, talking about my pains, ... stuff I wish he would have brought up more than 2 weeks before my surgery.
I am a very tough cookie. I can handle A LOT - emotionally and physically, but I CANNOT handle the pains I'm having. I've had them going on 11 years. He wants to jump in and start talking to me about it. SERIOUSLY!?! I could just fall over.
Previously when I asked his opinions and how he felt, he was like it's your body, It's your decision. So I made my decision. I go for pre-op March 3 and surgery is March 11.
I was on the verge of screaming when he started this recently. I know he has concerns, but does he think that NOW is a good time for me to start second guessing my decision.
Sorry, I needed to vent.