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What kind of pre-op hysterectomy questions should I be asking?
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06-23-2016, 12:40 PM
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Hysterectomy: August 3rd, 2016
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What kind of pre-op hysterectomy questions should I be asking?
Hi all, I am scheduled to have a total hysterectomy as well as have both of my ovaries removed on 8/1. I met with my surgeon this past Tuesday and I only have my pre-op appt with my anesthesiologist on 7/5 and that is it. I am kind of disappointed because when I met with the surgeon, I wasn't aware of all the questions I should be asking. I did ask about saving one of my ovaries, but I have enormous tumors on them that have damaged both of them beyond repair so the surgeon says they have to go.
Then I found this site and I downloaded the book and it talks about asking about leaving my cervix in, bladder tacks, and all other manner of stuff I didn't know I should ask. Then a friend of mine said to ask about a tummy tuck. Because of the size of my tumors, I will be opened up from my pelvic bone to my ribcage probably...does that mean I need to shave my who haa?
Also, I have been so blessed with amazing friends and family who want to help me. The most frequent piece of advice I get is to let those who want to help, help...OK then...LOL does anyone have a resource for scheduling people to come help me or deliver meals? There is so much for me to do and by the time I have surgery, my daughter will be in boot camp so I will be recovering at home alone after the first week. That first week I will be in the hospital and at my friends home.
I am so emotional today! Thank you for being here!!!
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06-23-2016, 01:21 PM
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Posts: 122
Hysterectomy: June 29th, 2016
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: What kind of pre-op questions should I be asking?
There is a lot of great info on this site. There is also a place that has a list of questions you can ask your doctor. If you have the HysterSisters app on your phone or tablet, there is a box to click on that says "Ask My Doc".
You can always give your doctor's nurse a call and let her know you still have some questions and would feel more comfortable if you could come back in to discuss them. I know my doctor has been great and will even talk to me on the phone if I need her.
To address a couple of your questions:
Shaving-most doctors recommend not shaving yourself. They will shave you if need be.
Cervix-I am not keeping mine as I have endometriosis on it. My doctor said that there is no need to keep the cervix. In years past, it was thought that keeping it could help with sexual function, but my doctor said there is no current research supporting that. Of course, different doctors will have different opinions, so you may want to ask yours.
The questions you ask will be specific to your situation, but here are some things that I asked:
Will I stay overnight at the hospital? How many nights?
If I lose my remaining ovary, will I go on hormones? How soon?
How will I know if I have an infection? What should I watch for?
I also asked about sex and about recovery time and returning to work.
Here are some things I have been doing to prepare for my surgery on Monday:
Major cleaning and organizing
Arranging for childcare
Arranging for people to help me at home as needed
Preparing crockpot freezer meals (I prepped and made up about 15 meals for the freezer that can be thawed overnight and put in the crock pot)
And also....for my last surgery, a friend of mine used an online resource to arrange for people to bring me meals. I'm not sure if I can share links here, but just google "Meal Train"
Good Luck!
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06-23-2016, 04:23 PM
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Hysterectomy: April 14th, 2016
Surgery Type: TLH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: What kind of pre-op questions should I be asking?
I called my surgeon two or three more times before my surgery with questions and other concerns. If you have a laundry list of questions you might want to make an appointment to get his/her undivided attention. The hospital generally does not want you shaving yourself before surgery because of bacteria, so if you need it they will do it. This can be a question you ask your doc as well. The pre-op section of the website has questions, as well as things to do to prepare, what to bring to the hospital, etc.
Best wishes!
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Re: What kind of pre-op questions should I be asking?
Check out this article for some ideas on what to ask you physician!
Questions for Your Pre-Op Hysterectomy Appointment
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06-23-2016, 04:51 PM
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Hysterectomy: August 3rd, 2016
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Re: What kind of pre-op questions should I be asking?
Thank you so much for all the advice! I was surprised to hear not to shave myself. I thought it would be easier on me post operatively if I did it myself. My girlfriends were gonna make it a spa day and we were gonna all get waxed and call it Vortexes and Vodka day! LOL Oh well I suppose I will just add it on to the list of questions. I think I don't know why I feel guilty about contacting my doctor again but I do.
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06-23-2016, 06:48 PM
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Hysterectomy: June 29th, 2016
Surgery Type: LAVH
Ovaries: Kept 1 or both
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Re: What kind of pre-op questions should I be asking?
Don't feel guilty! This is a major surgery and you need to feel comfortable and have all of your questions answered beforehand. I'm sure your doctor won't mind to go over any questions and concerns with you. Does your doctor/hospital have an online portal/system where you can send questions via email/messaging? Mine does and it is great! It is an easy way to ask questions without feeling like a bother. If you only have a few questions, this may be a good option.
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06-23-2016, 07:52 PM
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Hysterectomy: August 3rd, 2016
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Re: What kind of pre-op questions should I be asking?
We do have an electronic interface and I will email my doctor first thing in the morning. I have a background in pediatric critical care so I just have this image that my surgeon has 45 other patients all screaming for her attention too. I know that this is MY problem and if I don't get over it my questions won't get answered and it will be my fault, but this is what is making me act stupid about this! LOL
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