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Resuming sex to early.. Really , whats the deal??? Resuming sex to early.. Really , whats the deal???

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Unread 02-25-2012, 07:19 AM
Re: Resuming sex to early.. Really , whats the deal???

I agree don't risk an infection or tear just for sex. When I was pg with triplets we had a no sex order from dr around 5 months on. And we both managed it was about 4 months without it and I am glad I didn't have to worry abouty hubby straying!
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Unread 02-25-2012, 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted by gakris View Post
I agree don't risk an infection or tear just for sex. When I was pg with triplets we had a no sex order from dr around 5 months on. And we both managed it was about 4 months without it and I am glad I didn't have to worry abouty
hubby straying!
Awww triplets! I always wanted twins. Of course I have three kids now and they drive my crazy! LOL
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Unread 02-25-2012, 07:26 AM
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i read post other day, a sister waited 12 weeks and it was perfect for herso im going with that lol,unless of course my doctor tells me i must have it lol drs orders! Xxx
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Unread 02-25-2012, 07:27 AM
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Lol.. Doctors orders "NOW!"
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Unread 02-25-2012, 03:26 PM
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I am shocked that so many are putting their bodies and recovery at risk. It's just 8-12wks, if need be pleasure ur man, hubby, whom ever w/o sex. My doc told hubby and I at my pre op 8wks becuz of the vaginal cuff needs to heal throuoghly. I see him 3/9/12 for my 6wk post op, were going to ask is 8eks long enough or should we be safe and wait til the 10/12 week. My husband doesn't want to cause me any harm and I love him for that...I wouldn't either. Were all human, and are sex life b4 surgery was regular 3-4* a week. So were hurting for some just like everyone else. It's ur body not theirs. Be safe and wait. Lil joke, my husband stays busy mowing the lawn, doing laundry, homework with our kids, tae kwon do for the kids, cooking, taking care of me, etc. He said today it keeps his mind busy and off of sex, when ur so busy it's the last thing on ur mind
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Unread 02-25-2012, 03:56 PM
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But oh don't we miss our husbands. We are waiting too but are allowed to play as per the dr. My husband would never allow us to have sex without being cleared! He loves me way too much. He would stand be me no matter what and I would stand by him after all isn't that what marriage is?!?!
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Unread 02-25-2012, 04:06 PM
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But oh don't we miss our husbands. We are waiting too but are allowed to play as per the dr. My husband would never allow us to have sex without being cleared! He loves me way too much. He would stand be me no matter what and I would stand by him after all isn't that what marriage is?!?!
married 7yrs and were both happy. Ur right that's what marriage is!! I agree with u!
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Unread 02-25-2012, 04:07 PM
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I agree, if one finds the other not worth the wait then they themselves are not worth it x
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Unread 02-25-2012, 04:59 PM
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I'm with you sisters! Cannot imagine taking the risk by having sex before doctors gives the go ahead. My surgery was December 1 and my second surgery was January 5 (fistula) and two weeks ago the doc said I still have stitches and I'm not quite healed - so no sex until March 13........thankfully I have a very wonderful and patient hubby who is willing to wait. This might qualify as TOO LONG! but we will follow doctor's orders.
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Unread 02-25-2012, 04:59 PM
Re: Resuming sex to early.. Really , whats the deal???

I am completely scared to have sex at all and I had my hysterectomy 3 months ago.. I think I spend too much time reading the 'horror' stories online. Plus we really only havbe this one time to heal properly.
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