Staying strong through my struggle

I had my struggle with my hysterectomy at the age of 25. when your engaged had your whole life in front of you then you get hit with the word tumor that puts you on your knees or just worried that they are going to take the one thing you dreamed about is a family it gets taking away in a instant all you want to do cry or ask why.

My husband was supportive out of all of this I feel liking I'm robbing him of a bio family that not going to happen, we are trying to get finances in order to where we can start are adoption process. I just want find a community to where I could share my story as well who in the same situation.

Please do not feel like you're robbing your husband of a family. My mother adopted me and my brother after her hysterectomy, and she and my father loved us just as much as they would love a biological child. They've both passed away now, but I'm still grateful to them for how hard they worked to provide me with the kind of life that my biological parents could not provide for me, and I'm keeping their memories alive by living the values they've instilled in me. I've been going through some turbulence in my life since my father's recent passing; my social worker told me that he and my mother had raised a strong daughter, and I will get through this. The child you adopt will know that he or she has found a "forever home," which will be repaid to you in ways that you cannot even begin to imagine, and I'm confident that your husband will love this child just as much as a biological child. Best wishes for the both of you as you start your family!

There are lots of women in this community who can relate to how you are feeling. As you go forward to looking to expand your family you may want to search for a website community that has adoption as its focus so that you have the best chance of connecting with more women who can share from experience.

Please know that there are others who understand this heartache. I had years of infertility and finally had the rest of my "parts" removed ( my 5th gyn surgery) in 2007. We adopted our newborn in 2003, after years of emotional pain and never a pregnancy. You can weather this, and become even stronger as a couple. And if we had known how perfect this child that God sent to us thru adoption would be, we would have waited more patiently. There is a plan in place for you- you just may not be able to see the path yet-

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Originally Posted by Upstate NY Please know that there are others who understand this heartache. I had years of infertility and finally had the rest of my "parts" removed ( my 5th gyn surgery) in 2007. We adopted our newborn in 2003, after years of emotional pain and never a pregnancy. You can weather this, and become even stronger as a couple. And if we had known how perfect this child that God sent to us thru adoption would be, we would have waited more patiently. There is a plan in place for you- you just may not be able to see the path yet-

Thank you, sometimes I don't know what God is doing I'm waiting for patiently for Him work and see His spirit move and see the path He made for us

I understand what you are going through have your mind set on dream then out no where it get crushed or blink of eye it's gone. I had dream of being a mom be able have the conversation with other moms the hows and don'ts. I have a new goal is still being but a adoptive mom just being able find that support from other women out who took that step of faith to open are hearts to adoption raise a child that doesn't have are DNA raise are own.