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hey all,

can i ask yall a question?

well heres the thing, on my last post i was talking about my boyfrien well istill have not heard from him but that not the subject today. the subject today is wether or not i should go through with this... well i told yall that i was told that i need a hyster.... well thats what the nurs told me that the doc. had spoke to her about. when i talked to his nurse she told me that the cone biopsie came backatol worse then the other one did and asked me if i new whet my opions were,,, i told her that the doc told me that if the biopsie came back worse the the last just in jul. of last year let me remind you that is only 6months ago. but anyway... he said that if it came back worse then the last one or if the next pap he does comes back ithe mildesdt of dysplaysea a hyster. has to be done. the way i think is why not just gt it all out so there wont be a next time even if he got it all out this time i just dont wat to get that close to haveing cancer again. am i not thinking right here or something?? the way i look at it it i have my beautifull daughter and she see's me sick enough as it is, she has to see me in and out of the hospital with tubes hanging from my arms and somethimes from my ches(53%lung function very bad lung problems) why should i even take the chanch for it to get to the point when next time i get a call saying i have cancer, im just not willing to let it get that bad. my daughter should not have to see me like that if it is preventabl. i am ready for aome of my health prob. to be over. please help!!!!! i need to know if the disition(sp) im makeing is a good one.and just one more qeustion before i go... i had my cone biopsie on the 19 april and i am still bleeding a verry heavy spot somtime more?? HELP???

thanks to all the support i got with the last post.
love all,
cindy,charlseton,sc :confuse:

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Originally posted by eamderia the subject today is wether or not i should go through with this

Only you can make the decision as to whether or not you go through with surgery. However, before you make a decision I'd suggest making an appointment with your doctor to discuss this surgery in depth and to explore any options that may be available.

This will not be an easy decision. My advice to you is to read and research all you can, write down any questions and talk to your doctor about this (don't discuss this with the nurse; it's important that you have the input from your doctor).

Only after you have done this will you be able to make the best decision for yourself.

I'm so sorry to hear all you're going through. Some women say the waiting is the worst, but in some respects I think making the decision is the worst.

Please search out a second opinion too. Once you've talked to your doctor and also gotten a second opinion, you'll feel much more comfortable with your decision.

I wish you the best.
Ashley