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Sister never called me to wish me well...... Sister never called me to wish me well......

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Unread 12-13-2000, 07:16 PM
Sister never called me to wish me well......

I am requesting prays for me and my sister.
She never called me today to wish me luck. I am having surgery tomorrow.
She never called me once to see how I am since the
beginning. She is self centered and mean to me an it hurts me so much.
She lost her cat this week and I called her to give her my condolences. Am I nuts but I think my case is serious also for some attention.
It also frustrates me that my mom sticks up for her and finds excuses.
I am feeling so helpless and hurt right now.
She is my only sibling. Her message is very clear to me....
"you are not important to me."
Please pray that I forgive her so I can let go and worry about my recovery.
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Unread 12-13-2000, 07:55 PM
Sister never called me to wish me well......

My sister (only sibling) decided to not having anything to do with me a few years before my surgery. Whenever her kids had surgery, I would always call to see how they were or send a card or letter. I was diagnosed with cancer and I heard nothing from her! The thing that bothered me the worst was that my kids were a wreck and she never even called or wrote to them!! It really hurt me that she didn't even care enough about my kids to pick up the phone, even if she didn't want to have anything to do with me. Now the ironic part of all of this is that SHE is now scheduled for a hysterectomy in January!!! I am wondering if I am going to see her in the halls of the castle!
Please try not to let your sister bother you! Since she is so self centered, she may have no idea that you are hurting right now! You need to keep your mind on positive things!! Just remember how you will be out of surgery and on your way to a quick recovery very soon!! And don't forget that you have a lot of "sisters" right here for you!!!!
Unread 12-13-2000, 10:46 PM
Sister never called me to wish me well......

I am sorry you are having to go through this at the time you need support. I have the same issues with my sister. She is extremely self centered and only calls when there is turmoil in HER life. Well you have the support and prayers of the sisters her. I will say extra prayers for you tomorrow. God will be with you and his love will carry you through.

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Unread 12-14-2000, 08:41 AM
Sister never called me to wish me well......

You have all of your sisters here praying for you. It's a shame when family can't get along in times of trial. Sometimes it seems like a competition as to who's life is worse if our family. You know, my illness is worse than your's, etc. Thankfully most of us have pulled together during the past few years. We only have one who is totally unsupportive (I never heard from her or my brother after my hyst) but the rest of us are supportive. I pray that she has the sense to see you need help or even just a quick I'll be thinking of you. Just remember that you aren't alone. You have sisters all over the globe praying for you.
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Unread 12-14-2000, 01:31 PM
Sister never called me to wish me well......

I know your pain. I think there are a lot of us out there. But we must find our strength in the Lord. He wants us to lean on HIM. He says in Proverbs 3:4-5. Trust in the Lord with ALL thine heart. Do not lean on your own understanding. In ALL thy ways acknowledge Him and He will direct thy path. Read these words over and over and they will manifest in your heart.
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Unread 12-24-2000, 07:56 AM
in regards to how you're feeling about sister

i've been through 8 surgeries for endo,cyst, fibroids, hyst,ooporectomy, you name it i'v done it. my sisters are afraid that i'm gonna die so they avoid me like the plague. i wouldn't fret over it. I have 4 sisters and 3 bros and they are all so self absorbed in their own little worlds.out of the 7 of the siblings that i have only 2 call to see if i'm okay. Alot of people just cant handle crisis and i think that's why God decides to give us all the major problems because we are the ones who can handle it all. you have sisters here at this board and you don't have to be blood to be a sister.. I've actually replaced a few of them with my friends, the ones who are always there. but don't give up hope on her. She may come to her senses one day and need you, and of course you'll be there for her.have a merry /happy holiday. love paula

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