stupid things people say...

My best friend (who is thinking that she understands) said to me..."I know how you feel when you say emotionally something is missing. I felt that way when I had my c-section and the baby was no longer in my uterus. I felt like something was missing too after they took him out of me, so that is probly how you feel after your hysterectomy. Don't worry it will get better" UGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!

Everyone always told me that I would not feel like a woman any more.....Like I felt like one before.........Now I can at least pretty clothes and not worry about ruining them or try to schedule my family around my pain. I feel the same inside now as I did before, Just without most of the pain. Some of the people actually told me my husband would leave me because "I would no longer a woman" PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEZZZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!!!!

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Originally Posted by jnc019 Everyone always told me that I would not feel like a woman any more.....Like I felt like one before.........Now I can at least pretty clothes and not worry about ruining them or try to schedule my family around my pain. I feel the same inside now as I did before, Just without most of the pain. Some of the people actually told me my husband would leave me because "I would no longer a woman" PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEZZZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!!!!

Are those same idiots still around????

I thought they all died off forty years ago when Mom had hers!!

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Originally Posted by jnc019 Some of the people actually told me my husband would leave me because "I would no longer a woman" PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEZZZZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!!!!

OK, that just takes the cake!! What kind of freak says that????

Oh wow... hahaha.. no chance in the hubby leavin' here.. hahah.. told him noone would take him with these kids in tow.. hahahaha.. I think that's the least of our concerns. I would think dh would be happier b/c he could have playtime w/o it being interupted by pain or put off by Aunt Flo!!!! Oh.. and I won't be bugging him anymore for a vasectomy.. teeheee

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Originally Posted by raelynn3 My best friend (who is thinking that she understands) said to me..."I know how you feel when you say emotionally something is missing. I felt that way when I had my c-section and the baby was no longer in my uterus. I felt like something was missing too after they took him out of me, so that is probly how you feel after your hysterectomy. Don't worry it will get better" UGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!

Ugh, I'm sorry.

Maybe she thought she was comforting you and trying to relate through the only experience she had.

Believe it or not it was .............are you ready...................MY MOM!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Originally Posted by jnc019 Believe it or not it was .............are you ready...................MY MOM!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let's hear it for supportive Moms... NOT.

OK, that's even wierder!!

Thank god we've come a long way! Nice to know that men these days love us for more than our uterus!! hehe
jnc - that is soooooooo funny. one of the best!