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Did anyone have relations at 4 weeks post op Did anyone have relations at 4 weeks post op

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Unread 09-25-2004, 07:46 PM
Did anyone have relations at 4 weeks post op

Hello everyone,

I went to my 4 week post op appt on Wednesday and my Dr said everything was great and I could resume sexual relations whenever I was ready. My husband was there with me so he was happy as a clam. I was just wondering if anyone else had resumed this soon and was there any pain involved. I am pretty nervous about it hurting, ect? Any help with my worries would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks, Jessee
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Unread 09-25-2004, 08:59 PM

I just ask this question last week. I can't find anyone, but it has only been 3 weeks and 6 days for me. My libido has been going crazy so my DH decided we could try Outtercourse. It was great even though it was'nt the 'real thing'. I was even able to have a big "O"!! I don't think it will hurt if your DR. said it is o.k.. I figure it will be like after having a baby. Just a little tender. You might want to try some KY because that might ease some discomfort. I am so ready for my DR to release me. My drive has'nt been this way in years.
Unread 09-27-2004, 05:20 PM
Did anyone have relations at 4 weeks post op

I just went to the doctor today at 2 weeks and 4 days post op and was released to do everything except major abdominal workouts. She decided to keep me out of work just so that I can slowly get myself back into a normal routine but I am feeling great. I had a TVH. She said that she was just concerned about the abdominal incision that was made to do a vertical c-section scar revision. She did not want me busting it open. My DB is so wonderful. Of course since it has been a very long time since I have been able to have sex because of the pain and my being sick, he was excited to hear that we could try things out. We did outercourse first and I lost count of how many times I had the big "O" and I don't mean a bunch of little ones either. Then we just took things slow and because I was so excited and I was looking forward to it, it made everything great for me and him. I asked him how it felt and if things seemed different and he said that it all felt a little different but not much. I have been doing Keagel (sp) excercises since I got out of the castle and was feeling able to do it. So who knows maybe that payed off. He seemed to be very happy. Yeah it was three hours but it was amazing. I was able to have mulitple orgasms before the surgery but these are now more intense, even masterbation orgasms are more intense for me. This is just how my body did so remember always ask your Dr. if you are unsure or just want a stronger answer. Our bodies are all different so we heal and respond differently. I wish you the best.
9September04, TVH
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Unread 09-27-2004, 05:28 PM
Did anyone have relations at 4 weeks post op

jessee we resumed intercourse at 4.2 weeks. Dr. gave me the OK and I was terrified. We went very slow and nothing hurt at all. I wasn't able to O the first time, I think because of my anxiety. My dh offered to keep working with me on it:-) I was worried for nothing.

I had SAH and a tummy tuck.

Gooc luck!
Unread 09-27-2004, 09:03 PM
Did anyone have relations at 4 weeks post op

I resumed sex after 3 and a half weeks. It was fine, much better than before surgery, now that that huge honkin' fibroid is out of the way. The only thing I would caution you about is position. My dh got on top after the first few times, and it hurt where my incision was. Princess on top or spooning is better. :-) I did have some vaginal soreness, which my midwife says is low estrogen. KY Liquid works really well.

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