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Sex Post Op - What Would You Do Differently...

It's been 12 wks. post TAH for me and was cleared for unlimited activities including sex at 8 wks. We've had sex 2x only since the clearance. The first time wasn't enjoyable. I felt dry, tight, and just plain uncomfortable emotionally. I worried that my incision inside will open up, etc. In fact there was a little bit of spotting after that. Two wks later, we tried again. This time it's a little better but like before, we did it really slow. Even before Tah, I never had an "o" unless I stimulate myself. I'm one of the group of women who could never experience them. By the way, we used a lubricant the second time. There are many times when I wish my dh wouldn't think of having sex at all. I'd rather do anything aside from having sex anyway. (wHAT'S WRONG WITH ME?) Sadly, he's a regular guy who likes to have it once in a while. I think I'm still fortunate because he at least, doesn't ask for it more than once a wk. He's very understanding and
supportive of my feelings. I remember when I was in my early 40s, I was more interested in sex, now, it's completely gone. I might mention this to my gyn next appointment.

Thanks for hearing me out.

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