Date changed

I have been reading all the posts here for months but only posted recently. Everyone is so friendly & helpful

My date for surgury has been changed again-4th time! Doctor decided fixing the bladder was an option-told me no before..
So now I wait again-they haven't set a date yet. Now I have to wait to find out when the 2 doctors can do it. I got really depressed when I found out about this. The waiting is so hard. I have been crying alot for the last 4 days. I know I am depressed when I don't even want to talk to my grandson--he is Grammies boy.

I guess all I can do now is wait ...again.

I'm so sorry that you have to wait again! Here's a great big for you.

The only thing that I can say is to remember that everything happens for a reason... and hopefully you'll have everything done all at once and not have to have anymore surgeries!!!

You're in my thoughts!!! If you need anything, we're here for you, just let us know!

I really believe things happen for a reason.

My mother-in-law died the week I was first scheduled. I would have been here all alone .

I'm SO sorry that you have to wait so long for surgery, especially when this is the fourth date! The up-side is that you will have both surgeries done at once and only one recovery. I hope that you start feeling more hopeful and less down soon. Take care and let us know your new date once you get it!

I'm sending happy thoughts for a smooth surgery and recovery!

Maggiemay

I ALSO BELIEVE THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON. I TOO HAVE BEEN SCHEDULED 4 DIFFERENT TIMES, THE LASTEST BEING THE 10TH.

BUT EVERY TIME BEFORE SOMETHING WOULD HAPPEN , I'D GET SICK EVERYTIME. BUT THEN I REALIZED THAT I WAS ALREADY SICK AND DIDN'T KNOW HOW BAD,ANY USUALLY THE DAY AFTER I HAD BEEN DOWN FOR, I WOULD END UP IN BED FOR A WEEK OR MORE.

SO I KNOW GOD KNOWS BEST, NOT ONLY WOULD I GET SICK BUT, ONCE MY SISTER - IN -LAW LEFT HER ABUSIVE HUSBAND OF 17 YRS., AND HER AND HER KIDS NEEDED US.

I WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN ABLE TO HELP OUT, I KNOW IS WAS IMPORTANT FOR HER TO GET OUT.

THIS TIME WE HAD A DEATH AT OUR CHURCH, AND WERE NEEDED THERE. SO GOD ALWAYS HAS HIS REASONS.

I KNOW THE WAITING IS HARD I FIND MYSELF WONDERING IS THIS ONE LONG DREAM!