My Husband Does Not Want Sex

THAT'S DIFFERENT YUH!
OKAY WE ARE SEPARATED LIVING IN DIFFERENT HOUSES FOR A YEAR NOW BUT BEFORE IT WAS FINE AND ALWAYS HAD TIME FOR EACH OTHER. HE HELPED OUT ALOT DURING SURGERY, IT'S BEEN 21/2 MONTHS AND i'M READY TO TRY, BUT HE SAYS ARE YOU SURE YOUR READY AND DOESN'T REALLY WANT TO TALK OR MAKE MOVES
THE NIGHT WE HAD SET ASIDE FOR JUST US ALONE NO KIDS,HE CHANGED IT TO A NIGHT WHERE KIDS WOULD BE PRESENT, SO HE COULD TEACH SUNDAY SCOOL,WHICH IS GOOD i GUESS BUTWHY OUR NIGHT?HE STILL CALLS DAILY AND COMES BY EVERY SO OFTEN i JUST DON'T KNOW? WELL REALLY i'M THINKING HE'S FOUND SOMEONE ELSE TO PLEASE IN THAT AREA, BUT ON MY PART i ONLY WANT HIM AND ONLY FELL COMFORTABLE WITH HIM CHECKING OUT THE NEW PARTS HAHA
i TRY NOT TO THROW HINTS LIKE WHY NOT BECAUSE i DON'T LIKE THE RESULTS!
BE MORE PATIENT DON'T SAY ANYTHING ELSE
OR THROW A FIT i'M SAD i HAVE LOST MY HUSBAND FOR GOOD AND BAD TIMMING i NEED HIM,I HAVE GAINED WEIGHT MAYBE THAT'S IT
HELP! I PUT ON MAKEUP AND SMELL GOOD THOUGH!

wow. what a story. I can't relate much. I do understand about wanting to have sex for the "first time" with someone your comfortable with though. I'm not there yet but think about it when the time can come. (I have 6wks to go). Sounds like you'll just have to get naked and get your point across bluntly. Good Luck.

I want to make sure I'm reading this correctly.

You havn't lived in the same house for a year. Sounds like there are other issues going.

Have you tried couseling to solve the other issues? Not living in the same house and not having sex could be a by-product of the other issues. Once they are addressed everything might improve.