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Unread 09-23-2007, 07:31 AM
First Post-Op Sex Experience...

Those weeks before you can actually "do it" are tough! I know they say to take it slow and easy the first time, and I meant to, but...
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Unread 09-23-2007, 07:33 AM
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Originally Posted by ohmightyv
Those weeks before you can actually "do it" are tough! I know they say to take it slow and easy the first time, and I meant to, but...

LOL...that is all I needed to hear.
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Unread 09-23-2007, 08:10 AM
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First time at 7 1/2 weeks. Lots of pain and bleeding. I need a pad today. I'm very upset. I'll call the doctor tomorrow. this just doesn't feel right.
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Unread 09-23-2007, 08:47 AM
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This 60 year old grandmother and her 74 year old DH still know how to get it done. 6 1/2 weeks and it was great.
Saturday night Special.
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Unread 09-23-2007, 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted by damress
First time at 7 1/2 weeks. Lots of pain and bleeding. I need a pad today. I'm very upset. I'll call the doctor tomorrow. this just doesn't feel right.

I am sorry to hear this and would eoncourage you to call your doctor today if you are in need of a pad and it was painful and not benefinicial to you. I will be thinking of you and hoping for the best. Get rest today and try to stay off your feet. Let us know how you are in a few days, if not sooner?
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Unread 09-23-2007, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted by ASeniorSister
This 60 year old grandmother and her 74 year old DH still know how to get it done. 6 1/2 weeks and it was great.
Saturday night Special.

You go! It makes me smile to see all the different stories shared here.

I am happy for you.
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Unread 09-23-2007, 09:57 AM
First Post-Op Sex Experience...

Really our first time was an accident my husband wasn't even aware it really happened...tmi.... we were fooling around fast and furious like a couple of teenagers not meaning to get into things if ya know what I mean and woops... but I had to ... back up ...sorry...tmi...it was 2 days early for the extra week dr gave me for extra healing for the vag cuff. So we waited for that two days and I didn't think I would be scared but I was, more than being scared I was soo greatful it all worked and worked well . Now we are down the road of having been together a couple of more times and the pain of before I mean before my surgery it didn't matter how we did it it hurt somewhere, is gone and its just wonderful.
Way to go grandma! I hope we are still rock'n and rollin at 60 + ...
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Unread 09-23-2007, 10:14 AM
First Post-Op Sex Experience...

Going to 6 weeks post op on Tuesday, Pray all is healed!

I'll let you guys know
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Unread 09-23-2007, 11:01 AM
First Post-Op Sex Experience...

Well... I'm not sure if this counts or not... but at 3 weeks post-op I had to take matters into my own hands, so to speak. I'm not sure if it the hormonal "surge" I heard about, or just knowing that I'm not allowed to do certain things for a while yet... but this chick was losing her mind!! LOL I had talked to my doc after surgery, and he said that clitoral stimulation could be done before the 6 weeks, as long as everything was clean and sterile - and to take it slow and stop if there's any pain. Same for oral sex (the guy is supposed to rinse with listerine first). I haven't tried the oral yet... but manual clitoral stimulation was GREAT! I was a bit sore afterwards (I think from the muscles tensing up during the big O) but it was such a relief!!!

I'm still scared of full-blown sex.. but in the meantime.. it is a happy compromise.
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Unread 09-23-2007, 11:44 AM
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2 days shy of 6 weeks and very *****. DH very nervous but we went for it anyway. I felt a little burning and it was a little uncomfortable, so no "O" for me. DH said all good for him, no different then before. Probably needed more foreplay and KY (for me) (TMI - sorry).

I've had some bleeding and cramping, so maybe it was too soon.

Do I need to call doc about bleeding? I dread doing so.

I'm sure it will get better, but I seem to be healing slowly.
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