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Unread 09-30-2007, 07:52 PM
First Post-Op Sex Experience...

My DH and I really enjoy foreplay and he helps me with an orgasm. Then I help him. I have my next check up this Friday, it will be 4.5 weeks. I am looking forward to "real" sex.
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Unread 10-01-2007, 01:24 AM
First Post-Op Sex Experience...

Remember-more than one way to skin a cat!
Unread 10-01-2007, 04:13 AM
It's okay now!

My DH and I tried again last night and it was great!!!! We just needed to find a different position. I was on top (tmi) and it was wonderful. Who would have thought the position could make all the difference in the world. So for me, I'm back in the saddle again.

Woo hoo! Don't give up, if at first you don't succeed, just try a different position..........Hang in there ladies!!!
to all and thanks for all of the info. It really helps!
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Unread 10-01-2007, 05:40 PM
First Post-Op Sex Experience...

Originally Posted by Perceptionist
I'm with you RT66Cruiser.....


I'll be 2 weeks post-op tomorrow.
I can relate to all you ladies. I'm 4 weeks post op TVH on the 4th of Oct. and I am really anxious to see how it feels. I know I will be nervous about it hurting and feeling different, but I'm sure it will be fine. If we didn't have this increased libido, it wouldn't be so hard to wait.!!!!
Unread 10-02-2007, 09:41 PM
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i'm nervous, its been 4 months since my surgery....i'm seperated from my partner and have been somewhat intimate, she would be the only one i would trust
Unread 10-03-2007, 08:34 AM
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Last night was the night. I was nervous. But WOW..NO PAIN It was the first time EVER that it wasn't at least a little painful. I was surprised that I had more feeling in that area. It was a whole new experience. Too bad we were interupted before we were done. Oh well, was still great. Now next time (tonight probably) will be new too.
Unread 10-09-2007, 10:51 AM
First Post-Op Sex Experience...

Well, the cleared me to DTD last Thursday and my DH finally "gave in" last night before he went to work. It was the best it's been in a long time. NO PAIN! No discomfort or bleeding at all. YEAH!

Now I just need to get my DH to relax and enjoy himself. He's still really worried about hurting me - I have been in pain with intercourse for over a year (TMI). That will all come with time and now we have the rest of our lives.

Hoping you all the best on your road to recovery. Happy Healing
Unread 10-14-2007, 04:27 PM

Just shy of 9 weeks post-op and it was completely fabulous!
Unread 10-14-2007, 04:38 PM
First Post-Op Sex Experience...

Originally Posted by Zappo
Just shy of 9 weeks post-op and it was completely fabulous!

I am feeling inspired and hopeful. I wasn't because all I seem to read here is of painful and "Not ready" experiences..

A breath of fresh air.

Thank You.

I need to remain hopeful, there IS NO GOING BACK, for me.
Unread 10-14-2007, 05:27 PM
First Post-Op Sex Experience...

I am feeling very hopeful now, too. Almost everyone without other complications seems to say that sex is great after this. I am so relieved. IT was the thing I was most worried about through this. And to think of how often I took having an orgasm for granted or could take or leave sex. I will appreciate it much more now.



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