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Unread 10-14-2007, 08:21 PM
First Post-Op Sex Experience...

I did this weekend and it was wonderful. I was in control of the situation so I could ensure it was very gentle. I was also very worried about it. I'm not anymore.
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Unread 10-14-2007, 10:38 PM
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Okay ladies I haven't been cleared for this but I was having a really tough week and weekend. My wonder Dh was trying to console me and reassure me that I was still all woman and his woman and well.... Trust me he did a great job of letting me know just how much of a woman I still am. I'm 5 weeks post-op tomorrow and this happen this wee hours of this morning. No pain, just some minor discomfort for few moments and from then on it was fine. He says it was better. However I must say my body today feels like I've been lifting weights or something. I'm so sore.

It was a great for sure cure for the insomina I've had for the last 4weeks. I was out like a light and for some time. Work up and was back to sleep a few hours later without the help of any sleep aids. But I won't do this again until I've seen my doc at my 6week check-up. I know all the risk and if there are any signs of danger its to the doctor to confess my sin.
Unread 10-15-2007, 06:52 AM
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You are fine. It was uncomfortable for me the first time. I have had bleeding after intercourse since. I called the doc and will be seeing him next week. I still will continue to have sex though. It is not painful at all and we are experimenting with position that I would not try before since most caused pain. My best position before the surgery was missionary now it is getting broader. I hated being on top because I had so much pain, I avoided it, I am a new woman. It will get better.
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Unread 10-15-2007, 08:17 AM
First Post-Op Sex Experience...

It was 6 weeks for was great but I needed extra lubricant.

Now 10 months post need for any extra help and still great!
Unread 10-16-2007, 03:51 PM
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waited 3 weeks, and even waiting that long was hard. DH wanted to be gentle, but I was quite insistant that he wasnt, so we went back to our old ways, pre-op. Just had my post-op check today, five days later, and dr says everything is perfect, so cant wait to tell DH that he done good!

I too was worried about it being different, not nearly as good, not being able to finish so to speak, but it was all the same as before. Thank goodness!
Unread 10-16-2007, 04:33 PM
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It just keeps getting better!
Unread 10-16-2007, 07:29 PM
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I'm still waiting!!!!!! Ive been out of a relationship for 14 months, but my partner and i are still intimate but we havent been since my surgery 4 1/2 months ago.....we had some intimacy but I am waiting for the right nervous that things wont function correctly.....we were together for 9 years and are starting to get back together.....we are easing our way is not only for me but for her too.....waiting for the perfect moment!!!!!
Unread 10-17-2007, 12:39 PM
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good luck with that moment...from everything I've read, it should be fine.

Unread 10-17-2007, 09:26 PM
I hope so!!!

Originally Posted by jodi3
good luck with that moment...from everything I've read, it should be fine.


I think it will be soon....we have both been running around with our jobs and family that we haven't had any alone time....hopefully soon...thanks for the support
Unread 10-17-2007, 09:47 PM
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I'm in my 3rd week and very curious......cant wait to get released from the doctor!!!!

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