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Unread 11-28-2007, 04:56 AM
Sex drive coming back?

HI - I could take it or leave it beforehand and then I had a couple of days in the early weeks when I wanted to but couldn't - now nothing!! Am 8 weeks out tomorrow.

Am just gonna wait and see what happens!
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Unread 11-30-2007, 10:00 PM
Feeling "turned on" post op

I'm 5 1/2 weeks post op from BSO (both ovaries removed). Had uterus removed 2 years ago. After this last surgery, several times a day I actually feel that "turned on" feeling "down there" just out of the blue. The only time I've really ever felt that before was when there was some sort of sexual stimulus like seeing a sex act in a movie or reading about it. And of course when having sex. But these are just random. Now I know what a teenage boy must feel like all the time! It's actually kind of annoying, since you can't do anything about it if you're at work! Also, my boyfriend has given me orgasms orally in the past couple of weeks and we've done a little partial penetration. The clitoral orgasms are, thankfully, exactly the same as before. But, the penetration feels like it hurts or burns, and he's not very deep, yet. Maybe I'm dry? We don't do that until after my orgasm and I think I'm actually still lubricating, but I'm not sure yet. I thought we were supposed to dry up with menopause? We're going to try total penetration in a few days (he has it scheduled on his blackberry!) and I'm going to have some KY handy just in case. I'm a little nervous about it because I'm afraid it's going to be painful and that part of sex will be ruined. Hopefully it's just irritation from lack of use and it will get better.
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Unread 12-01-2007, 04:00 AM
Sex drive coming back?

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Originally Posted by Maggi8
I'm 5 1/2 weeks post op from BSO (both ovaries removed). Had uterus removed 2 years ago. After this last surgery, several times a day I actually feel that "turned on" feeling "down there" just out of the blue. The only time I've really ever felt that before was when there was some sort of sexual stimulus like seeing a sex act in a movie or reading about it. And of course when having sex. But these are just random. Now I know what a teenage boy must feel like all the time! It's actually kind of annoying, since you can't do anything about it if you're at work! Also, my boyfriend has given me orgasms orally in the past couple of weeks and we've done a little partial penetration. The clitoral orgasms are, thankfully, exactly the same as before. But, the penetration feels like it hurts or burns, and he's not very deep, yet. Maybe I'm dry? We don't do that until after my orgasm and I think I'm actually still lubricating, but I'm not sure yet. I thought we were supposed to dry up with menopause? We're going to try total penetration in a few days (he has it scheduled on his blackberry!) and I'm going to have some KY handy just in case. I'm a little nervous about it because I'm afraid it's going to be painful and that part of sex will be ruined. Hopefully it's just irritation from lack of use and it will get better.
Its strange isnt it? my sister said she felt like a wild animal 1 day after her operation and then it came and went through recovery - she is back to normal 100% now! So am I. I still feel a bit anxious but the penetration is fine and i still 'get wet' for want of a better phrase. I was terrified by the reports of drying up but there are lots of things to help that if it happens. would be a shame though!
You will be fine, i am sure - how sweet that he has it on his blackberry - men are hilarious!
good luck! x
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