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Unread 03-20-2008, 04:58 PM
Question about resuming intimacy

Hi Menoherone, Yes that is right. Pain meds do take away the desire!!!! I have been on pain meds for 3 yrs. I had my TAH and now I cannot wait either!!!!! I have 5 DAYS LEFT, LOL
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Unread 03-20-2008, 08:58 PM
Question about resuming intimacy

Hi Menoherone, I myself also had no desire while on the pain meds. But I have been in full force desire every since I stopped taking them which was as soon as I could as I do not like taking any meds. So at this point time is you friend and soon you will be able to do many things with a better abled boby. Good luck sister friend. Rennyri
Unread 03-20-2008, 09:09 PM
Question about resuming intimacy

Why is it that so many Doctor give us all a time frame that differ so much. 4 wks, 6 wks ect. maybe it is the type of sugery????? I also love that we can reach out in this site and get an answer, a real one, a positive one from our sister family. Thank you to all.
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Unread 03-21-2008, 08:23 AM
Question about resuming intimacy

Hi Ladies, I went to my two week post op appt. two days ago I asked my dr. very specificaly what we could do for intimacy, he also told me as some of you have mentioned that orgasm is ok, but nothing in the vag. for six weeks. I have to say I was glad to hear this, it has eased the tention for the two of us (dh), and allowed me to think about other things in! I couldnt believe how strong the urge was so soon after surgery, but relieved. Good luck all. Happy spring day!
Unread 03-21-2008, 09:10 AM
Question about resuming intimacy

Hi Ladies, I'm soooooo glad someone started this thread. I had my TAH 4 days ago and I'm already feeling a bit frisky. DH brought me breakfast and coffee this morning wearing a wifebeater and some boxer briefs...OMG, I wanted to just throw him on the ground and take him right there. We are normally very loving but I honestly didn't expect to feel like this so soon after surgery. I'm wondering if a part of it has to do with the fact that our husbands are being so nurturing and taking such good care of us, that we want to give them the one thing that feels BEST to them...but then I dismiss that idea when I feel 'twitching' going on down there so I know I'm really wanting it too...
Unread 03-21-2008, 10:31 AM
Question about resuming intimacy

thank you and we will, we decided it was a one time good deal. I hope u get better and return to healthy soon.

take care and good luck!
Unread 03-21-2008, 11:45 PM
Question about resuming intimacy

Hi Goldeelocks, I just so know what you mean! The wait is so hard and the not being able to just jump his bones when they come in the room looking so tempting tantallizing us with their phermones just makes us what it more.........I have 12 more days and then I am just going to lose control. With doctor permission of course.
Unread 03-22-2008, 09:27 AM
Question about resuming intimacy

LOL great post!! I totally agree with you, but mine isnt until the 10th and even though I slipped up once it sure made me want it even more. My DH is in the Air Force and I love him in the new uniform, super hot! Just please be careful and have fun!
Unread 03-22-2008, 02:04 PM
Question about resuming intimacy

This site sure is making it a little more fun even though the real fun will start later this month. DH will be very careful as he would never want to hurt me but is very much up to the lovemaking when the time is right. We all have so much to look forward to..... like no more pain for one. I like the stay at home now that I can do a little more. Thank you for your replies Rennyri
Unread 03-22-2008, 02:46 PM
Question about resuming intimacy

I completely agree on the stay at home part, definitely not missing work that much. Missing the people at work but not the working part. Hope you and your DH have a great time getting to know each other again, I cant wait till I am really supposed to do it. No more cheating on that for me!

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